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codeoftheroad · Nov 11, 2010, 09:51 AM

OK well me amd my girlfriend got naked for the first time and she was laying on top of me. Then I noticed precum on my penis.im not sure but I think some touched her vagina.. she just got of her period 4 days earlier and she sometimes gets them once every 2 months.I made her wash the area like 15 minutes later.I peed a lot of times before we did that.what are the chances that she could get pregnant. I was unaware that minors could buy condoms.I didn't enter her. Luckily I wouldn't fit. Blessing in disguise I guess.I really would like to know the chances. We are both minors so she is unable to get the backup pill. Please any answers are well apreciated

tickle · Nov 11, 2010, 10:00 AM

If you didn't penetrate her then that may be okay, but realize that precum can do the job as well. If some 'touched her vagina' then she may be okay, but be smarter next time.

Tick

justcurious55 · Nov 11, 2010, 10:03 AM

Pretty unlikely. At this point, I wouldn't freak out too much, since if she gets stressed that could throw off her cycle. If she misses her next expected period, she'll need to take a test.

Let this serve as a wake up call. Are you really ready for sex? Will you both be okay is she does end up pregnant? What will you do? What if she were to get pregnant and she decides to keep the baby. Even if you get condoms, no form of birth control is 100% effective. There is ALWAYS some chance of pregnancy. Best advice, keep your pants on until you're ready for fatherhood.

codeoftheroad · Nov 11, 2010, 10:31 AM

Thank you to all who answered so fast, I really apreciate it. I guess I'm freaking out because my mom has severe mental issues and she said if I had sex she would kick me out on the street and I wouldn't be her son any more. Its just me and her.I mean if I get kicked out at 15 my life well be screwed. No education, no job ,no home, no support,nothing.and that's just if I had sex.just imagine what would happen if I got her pregnant.I don't want one mistake that didn't even really turn into sex ruining my life for ever.I might as well go to prison,as it would have the same affect on my life. Is there any way that a minor could get ahold of one of those morning after pills in California without a prescription?

tickle · Nov 11, 2010, 10:37 AM

Originally Posted by codeoftheroad

there any way that a minor could get ahold of one of those morning after pills in california without a prescription?

Code, my dear, no there isn't any way at all you could get one of those pills as a minor and you certainly don't want to let the cat out of the bag owing to your circumstances you just explained. I don't think you have anything to worry about. You have had one scare now, leave it at that and learn from it, okay. All the best.

Tick

codeoftheroad · Nov 11, 2010, 10:49 AM

Thank you tickle. This has made me feel a lot better.no more sex till we are both of age.

justcurious55 · Nov 11, 2010, 01:00 PM

I think you've got the right idea there code, best to wait until you're both older and ready to handle the risks that come with sex.

tickle, I'm curious about minors getting the plan be pill now. I live in ca too and when I was a minor and would go to planned parenthood for my regular birth control pills, they would also include a plan be package, even though I was under 18. Have the laws changed? Can minors no longer get the plan be pill here at all? Or did you mean without a prescription?

tickle · Nov 11, 2010, 01:15 PM

[QUOTE=justcurious55;2598338] can minors no longer get the plan b pill here at all? Or did you mean without a prescription?[/QUOTE

Hi Just ! Yes, I meant you can't get it without a prescription. I think I will check the information to see what Canada has to say about the morning after pill.

Tick

tickle · Nov 11, 2010, 01:21 PM

I again Just. You are correct it is now available in Canada over the counter. I am not up on my contraception thingies nowadays. I am way past condoms now being almost 70 ! Oh, god, liberation !

Tick

justcurious55 · Nov 11, 2010, 05:32 PM

Originally Posted by tickle

I again Just. You are correct it is now available in Canada over the counter. I am not up on my contraception thingies nowadays. I am way past condoms now being almost 70 ! Oh, god, liberation !

tick

I meant CA, as in California. But glad now we both know what it is in Canada too. :)