[MICchick]

My best friend has a brother a year older then her. She always jokes around about how funny it would be if my and him went out! I always pretend that I hate him and I think he's ugly just so she doesn't get mad! I've liked him for a while now and I have never kept a secret from her this long its so hard! Me and kalie joke around all the time in the halls we ask all the great guys to be our best frieends he brother said yes to me and now he always gives me hugs! Kalie said he likes me but I always act like I don't want him to so I say eww I reaaaly really want to go out with him but I'm scared kalie will be mad what should I do? How do I tell her with out her being mad at mee

[Laceybug2085]

Just be honest with your friend. If you do or, don't date her brother you want to keep her as a friend and too many secrets big or, small can creep into a friendship and divide it. How old are you? Cause I must say it's really silly to pretend not to like someone who you like and who probably likes you! Lol So tell your friend that you haven't been totally honest with her... tell her you have valued her friendship and would let nothing come between the two of you. Tell her you have tried to hide and maybe even forget your feelings but you can't you like her brother. See how she feels about this ask her to be honest with you since you are being honest with her. Then if you have her blessing on to plan "B". MAKE YOUR MOVE! If she isn't comfortable with it then you need to step back and think about what is most important here your friend who will most likely always be here for you and has been in your life for sometime or, this guy who makes you melt... who may or, may not be around in the future and doesn't share your history. Be careful and be honest with everyone's feelings. I've been in this situation and others similar and how you say what you feel can be everything. But from what you wrote it sounds like your friend is more than OK with this! Good luck Hunny! Ihope this helps you out.

[Jake2008]

You're in grade eight?

Are you allowed to date? Have a relationship with a boy your own age?

Liking your best friends brother at your age, in my opinion, should be friendship, and nothing more.

[Devorameira]

You're really young to date. Is it okay with Mom and Dad?

In my opinion, you should just stay friends with him. If you started seeing him it would cut into your time with your best friend Kalie and would probably end that friendship.

There's plenty of time and plenty of other boys that will come along, but I'd leave this one alone.

[MICchick]

Hes not even a year older then me because he has a late birthday in October mines in march so its not even a yar apart is that still bad? Yes I'm alwoed dating.