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    babygirl1987 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 18, 2010, 06:47 PM
    Friendship
    I have been best friends with my friend for the past 9yrs and we would do a lot of things together. Recently her boyfriend of 4 yrs told her she had to pick between me or him instead of doing that she just decide notto spend as much time with me like she did. What should I do??
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    Sep 18, 2010, 07:13 PM

    Be there for her. If she is trying so hard to please her boyfriend, he'll get tired of her being so easily led and drop her.

    She'll need you. I would bet on it.
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    Sep 19, 2010, 05:23 AM
    In my opinion, it is never wise to drop a friend, to please a boyfriend.

    I would personally drop him.
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    Sep 23, 2010, 12:28 PM

    Boyfriends come and go, but family and real good friends will always be there. I know that what she has done hurts. If you can try and be there when she needs you after he has moved on to another girl.
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