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    lbladylala Posts: 9, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 12, 2010, 08:55 AM
    I don't like my boyfriend anymore but he's in love with me
    I was at a football game one night and one of my friends hooked me up with this really cute guy that night. We held hands, and he seemed really sweet and caring and everything. I invited him over the next day, and we had fun but I had this really nervous feeling. Not like the butterflies, but this akwardness feeling. Now I'm losing my feelings for him, but the worst part is his mom told me he was like madly in love with me already. I really need some help cause recently his heart got broken by his ex, so yeah I need some advice!
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    Sep 12, 2010, 09:14 AM

    There is no "madly" in love after one date, there is "in heat" and liking a lot. Love grows over months and months.

    If you don't want to date him and don't like him, then be honest, the worst you could do is drag him on and on without him knowning the truth
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    Sep 12, 2010, 09:27 AM

    Go with your feelings. If you don't like him... you can't make yourself have feelings you don't have.
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    Sep 13, 2010, 08:00 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Kitkat22 View Post
    Go with your feelings. If you don't like him...you can't make your self have feelings you don't have.
    I do know to go with my true feelings, but I still like him, just not as much as he likes me. He invited me over tonight when I was supposed to break up with him, but all my friends told me not to, so I didn't go tonight. I am still going out with him, but I'm just going to give him some time, and me, maybe I will grow some feelings for him, maybe I won't.
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    Sep 13, 2010, 08:06 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by lbladylala View Post
    I do know to go with my true feelings, but I still like him, just not as much as he likes me. He invited me over tonight when I was supposed to break up with him, but all my freinds told me not to, so I didn't go tonight. I am still going out with him, but im just going to give him some time, and me, maybe I will grow some feelings for him, maybe I won't.



    No you won't. You'll start resenting him. Wait until the right one comes
    Along. You may do something you're not ready for if you spend time with this guy. You can't make yourself love or really like someone. Time wasted.

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