[frostykay21]

What am I doing wrong? It might be implantation bleeding but is heavy and not spotting.

[DoulaLC]

When is your period actually due? How long have you been trying to become pregnant?

Most couples will become pregnant within a year of trying, but for some it can take a bit longer... even when everything is fine. This is why you only have about a 20-25% chance of becoming pregnant in any given cycle.

If you were to notice implantation spotting/bleeding, and most women don't, it most often is short term and just spotting. You can, however, have some heavier bleeding in early pregnancy for a number of possible reasons.

You may be doing nothing wrong at all and it will just take a bit more time. How have you determined when you are most likely ovulating?

[frostykay21]

Three months is how long I have been trying. My period was supposed to come two days afterwards and I use the ovulation calculator on justmommies.com and ovulation test to predict ovulation and have done it when ovulating both times.

[J_9]

Those ovulation tests are strictly predictors. It's impossible to know exactly when you ovulate.

As Doula has said, it can take the average healthy couple up to a year of actively trying before actually conceiving.

I know it's hard, but don't get frustrated. It just takes time.