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    nokidswantmarry Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Sep 4, 2010, 03:29 PM
    I don't want kids but my boyfriend do. Also he want marry me
    We've have been together for 7yrs I'm 23 he's 24. Before we started dating and long after I have stress to him I do not want children he said okay he respects that. It just confuses me now that he want kids. Now he says he want to get married but keep pushing it back I don't have a ring. We have been living together for 4ys now. He never wants to have sex. When we do have sex its like once or twice a month for the last 2yrs but we have moments were one week we may have sex 2 to 4 times a maybe like 3 times out of a year. We do have oral sex he loves for me to do that I don't like the idea of it being done to me but I do enjoy it if it make any since on me

    He don't clean; he spends a lot of money; he plays video games 24/7. he looks at other girls on line he jacks off

    I don't make him clean I'm no nagger; I'm a big saver; I love to spend time with people and him;
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    Sep 4, 2010, 03:48 PM
    Sounds like disaster. Any good points to this relationship?
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    Sep 4, 2010, 04:39 PM
    Children are the best and most wonderful gifts a couple can ever give each other because without noticing it they seal a relationship and love in the most perfect way ever,they are the fruit of that beautiful love you share.Give it a second thought,you'll see how sweet they are.

    If that guy treats you that way then just chuck him and get a good responsible understanding man that really deserves you and one that will treat you like a true woman that you are.
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    Sep 4, 2010, 06:43 PM

    Children are great but not everyone wants one. I can respect and appreciate that. If you don't want them, don't have them.

    If he wants them and you don't you are going to have problems, but sounds to like you have problems any way. Why are you in this relationship? It does not sound like a very pleasant one to me.
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    Sep 5, 2010, 11:30 AM

    And where is this relationship going when you both want and expect such different things??

    After all this time and you have unresolved issues, why haven't you communicated to resolve them?

    I don't even understand why you are still together by what you have written.

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