[Muradin]

I went to a club one night and ended up grinding on a large girl. I fessed up to my girlfriend about it and she didn't get upset but rather found the incident hilarious. I thought she would consider it cheating. She hasn't made it a big deal but I still can't seem to forget the incident. Can anyone help me?

[Kitkat22]

Exactly what is grinding? And what's so funny about "A large gir".

[Muradin]

Grinding is a type of dance where two people get close together and kind of rub each others bodies as they dance to the beat.

[Kitkat22]

Grinding is a type of dance where two people get close together and kind of rub each others bodies as they dance to the beat.

That isn't cheating. Is your girlfriend a beauty queen? Laughing at some one who is big or over wieght is not to classy.

[Muradin]

How do I get over this incident even after I told her about it? THAT is my main problem :/

[DoulaLC]

Cheating means different things to different people.

Thank your lucky stars that your girlfriend is the sort that knows it meant nothing (which I assume is the case? ) and wasn't bothered by it. Other girls may not have seen anything humorous about it.

Since you are bothered by it (maybe there is a twinge of guilt because you wouldn't be pleased if she had done the same thing?); hopefully that will help you to be more careful from now on. Your girlfriend might not continue to find it hilarious if it happens again!

[Fr_Chuck]

I have deleted your dozen or so posts, please stop posting the same question over and over and over ( did I say over)

I would hate to have to take more action because of your spam.

[talaniman]

If it made you feel guilty, you have told your girl, she isn't mad so forget it, and don't do it again.

Thanks Fr Chuck.