I went to a club one night and ended up grinding on a large girl. I fessed up to my girlfriend about it and she didn't get upset but rather found the incident hilarious. I thought she would consider it cheating. She hasn't made it a big deal but I still can't seem to forget the incident. Can anyone help me?

Exactly what is grinding? And what's so funny about "A large gir".

Grinding is a type of dance where two people get close together and kind of rub each others bodies as they dance to the beat.

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Originally Posted by Muradin

Grinding is a type of dance where two people get close together and kind of rub each others bodies as they dance to the beat.

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That isn't cheating. Is your girlfriend a beauty queen? Laughing at some one who is big or over wieght is not to classy.

How do I get over this incident even after I told her about it? THAT is my main problem :/

Cheating means different things to different people.

Thank your lucky stars that your girlfriend is the sort that knows it meant nothing (which I assume is the case? ) and wasn't bothered by it. Other girls may not have seen anything humorous about it.

Since you are bothered by it (maybe there is a twinge of guilt because you wouldn't be pleased if she had done the same thing?); hopefully that will help you to be more careful from now on. Your girlfriend might not continue to find it hilarious if it happens again!

I have deleted your dozen or so posts, please stop posting the same question over and over and over ( did I say over)

I would hate to have to take more action because of your spam.

If it made you feel guilty, you have told your girl, she isn't mad so forget it, and don't do it again.

Thanks Fr Chuck.