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  • Aug 22, 2010, 04:35 PM
    Muradin
    How can I forget about past mistakes? Is this cheating?
    I went to a club one night and ended up grinding on a large girl. I fessed up to my girlfriend about it and she didn't get upset but rather found the incident hilarious. I thought she would consider it cheating. She hasn't made it a big deal but I still can't seem to forget the incident. Can anyone help me?
  • Aug 22, 2010, 04:38 PM
    Kitkat22

    Exactly what is grinding? And what's so funny about "A large gir".
  • Aug 22, 2010, 04:39 PM
    Muradin

    Grinding is a type of dance where two people get close together and kind of rub each others bodies as they dance to the beat.
  • Aug 22, 2010, 04:41 PM
    Kitkat22
    Quote:

    Originally Posted by Muradin View Post
    Grinding is a type of dance where two people get close together and kind of rub each others bodies as they dance to the beat.

    That isn't cheating. Is your girlfriend a beauty queen? Laughing at some one who is big or over wieght is not to classy.
  • Aug 22, 2010, 04:43 PM
    Muradin

    How do I get over this incident even after I told her about it? THAT is my main problem :/
  • Aug 22, 2010, 04:45 PM
    DoulaLC

    Cheating means different things to different people.

    Thank your lucky stars that your girlfriend is the sort that knows it meant nothing (which I assume is the case? ) and wasn't bothered by it. Other girls may not have seen anything humorous about it.

    Since you are bothered by it (maybe there is a twinge of guilt because you wouldn't be pleased if she had done the same thing?); hopefully that will help you to be more careful from now on. Your girlfriend might not continue to find it hilarious if it happens again!
  • Aug 22, 2010, 04:58 PM
    Fr_Chuck

    I have deleted your dozen or so posts, please stop posting the same question over and over and over ( did I say over)

    I would hate to have to take more action because of your spam.
  • Aug 22, 2010, 08:35 PM
    talaniman

    If it made you feel guilty, you have told your girl, she isn't mad so forget it, and don't do it again.

    Thanks Fr Chuck.

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