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    wolf1175 Posts: 2, Reputation: 1
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    Aug 11, 2010, 11:09 AM
    What do I do if I keep having the want to kill my brother in law for rapeing my wife
    My wife has told me that her brother had raped her for 3 years starting when she was 14,
    She told her mother that when he started to do it the first 5 times and she didn't bleive her but now that my wife has a baby her mom now starts beliving her but dose not put the brother in jail and the hole famliy knows about it but I'm not meant to know but I found out because my wife told me for the past year I've had wanted to kill this man and along with the whole famliy and to make things worse I have to live with the famliy till I get her a home to live in. so please help me I'm getting worse as the day go's by, I to kill him but I know that won't do anything in the end I want to fight this on a good note so I won't have to risk myself going to jail.so I keep myself lock up in my wife's bedroom so I don't do anything stupid so I'm on here all day so please help me. Thank you.
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    Aug 11, 2010, 11:20 AM

    Get her to go to the authorities and file charges... but do NOT take things into your own hands... it will be bad for you, and it won't help your wife or baby at all. What your mother-in-law believes or not has nothing to do with it.

    And last of all, keep as much distance as you can between yourself and the brother-in-law. Its easier to keep temptation under control when the optortunity to follow through never happens. Let the authorities deal with it.
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    Aug 11, 2010, 11:26 AM

    Hello w:

    I, like you and smoothy, think the guy ought to be prosecuted... But, in the final analysis, it's not OUR decision to make. Plus, I'm sure that your wife considered it, and decided not to. She's apparently forgiven him, and no matter WHAT you feel, you should respect your wife's wishes.

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    Aug 12, 2010, 01:42 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by smoothy View Post
    Get her to go to the authorites and file charges....but do NOT take things into your own hands....it will be bad for you, and it won't help your wife or baby at all. What your mother-in-law believes or not has nothing to do with it.

    And last of all, keep as much distance as you can between yourself and the brother-in-law. Its easier to keep temptation under control when the optortunity to follow through never happens. Let the authorities deal with it.
    Thank you I owe you one, that's what my wife wants to do when her and I move out of this godforsaken place.
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