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I had her I lost her and now I want her back!
I was in a lesbian relationship for the last 6 years and I must admit I didn't know what I had until she was gone.We went through a lot together mostly her looking out for me.My family disrespected her because they thought she wasent good enough for me and I let it happen time and time again because I wasent sure how I felt... well years have went past and I know for sure That she is the one and not just the one that one.That one that makes your head spin and you just can't see living your life without like she was made for you and you for her! I had so much on my mind that I left town only for a week but while I was gone I didn't call and that was it for her .When I got back she wanted me to get my things from her place and for me to bring her thingsn to her no if ands or buts about it.and there goes 6 years.. so now I can't eat or sleep I go to work monly because I have to pay my bills... I want her back how can I show how much I love her because that's what she keeps telling me she doesn't feel loved.She doesn't want to talk or see me... What Can I do??
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If she does not want to talk or see you there is not much you can do. She has waited for 6 years while you hummed and hawed about if she was the one,your family disrespected her and she felt unloved. Maybe your eureka moment that she is the one for you came too late. If she was the one mostly looking out for you,your relationship sounded very one sided. Let her be,I'm sure she is hurt too and needs time to process. Start no contact,you need to start healing and taking a look at your part in the break down of the relationship. |
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You better leave her alone and get your own house in order as it sounds like you had many chances in 6 years to show love and didn't. So now you learn from your past and do better. It does get better over time, so don't think you can force someone to change their minds, or make an emotional pest of yourself. High time you learned to take care of yourself. Physically, Mentally, Emotionally, and Spiritually. |
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