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    unknowngirl33 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 14, 2010, 03:38 PM
    How can you tell if your boy friendlike watching porn more then having sex with you
    OK my boy friend got me to watch porn with him the other day and he really enjoyed it and I didn't and all he cared about was getting himself off he didn't even try anything on me


    And one more thing he told me that he loves me but he doesn't FIND ME SEXY ANYMORE HELP PLEASE we don't have sex much and I want it but he doesn't
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    Jun 16, 2010, 03:43 AM

    It would help to know your age and how long you have been with him and are there other issues.
    I really don't think porn is the issue here. I think you should closely examine the relationship as a whole. Your boyfriend sounds somewhat selfish and not sure himself about the relationship saying he loves you but not finding you sexy. This is an attitude that says "friend not lover" and I suggest a conversation with him to clarify both of your expectations of what your relationship is now and what you expect in the future.
    Don't worry about the porn. Be sure you are involved with someone who truly cares about you.
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    Jun 16, 2010, 04:57 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by unknowngirl33 View Post
    he told me that he loves me but he doesn't FIND ME SEXY ANYMORE HELP PLEASE we don't have sex much and i want it but he doesn't
    And you call him a boyfriend? You think its going to get any better?

    Porn has nothing to do with the problems in your relationship with him, and you have some world class problems in it... if you really want to call it a relationship at all. I'd hardly even call it a friends with benefits much less a boyfriend / girlfriend relationship.
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    Jun 16, 2010, 07:33 AM

    How old are you both, and how long have you been together?

    Personally, once someone has put you down, and ignored your needs, its time to go.
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