OK my boy friend got me to watch porn with him the other day and he really enjoyed it and I didn't and all he cared about was getting himself off he didn't even try anything on me


And one more thing he told me that he loves me but he doesn't FIND ME SEXY ANYMORE HELP PLEASE we don't have sex much and I want it but he doesn't

It would help to know your age and how long you have been with him and are there other issues.
I really don't think porn is the issue here. I think you should closely examine the relationship as a whole. Your boyfriend sounds somewhat selfish and not sure himself about the relationship saying he loves you but not finding you sexy. This is an attitude that says "friend not lover" and I suggest a conversation with him to clarify both of your expectations of what your relationship is now and what you expect in the future.
Don't worry about the porn. Be sure you are involved with someone who truly cares about you.

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Originally Posted by unknowngirl33

he told me that he loves me but he doesn't FIND ME SEXY ANYMORE HELP PLEASE we don't have sex much and i want it but he doesn't

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And you call him a boyfriend? You think its going to get any better?

Porn has nothing to do with the problems in your relationship with him, and you have some world class problems in it... if you really want to call it a relationship at all. I'd hardly even call it a friends with benefits much less a boyfriend / girlfriend relationship.

How old are you both, and how long have you been together?

Personally, once someone has put you down, and ignored your needs, its time to go.