[joseph466311]

I'm a gay person and I'm still at a young age. I was wondering when I grow up will I find that perfect guy I want to be with? :( </3 I don't want to be alone for ever because of my sexuality,

[Wondergirl]

There is no one perfect person for gay or straight. We find a partner who is human just like we are, and hopefully both will work together to make a great relationship.

[liz28]

Let me tell you, one of my best friend is gay and am so happy for him right now because finally he is with someone who made him smile again. Yes, you can find someone suitable for you and you might not get it on the first try but as long as you are with someone who wants to be with you through the happy and hard times, the relationship can stand a chance.

I wonder what is your age and do you have people around you who are supporting your choice?

[Fr_Chuck]

With divorce rates running at over 50 percent I will go that an idea of a "soul" mate is a wonderful idea for the movies. In real life relationships are tough, they require lots of work and commitment. So you will get what you put into a relationship.

Being gay is just one part of a over all direction.

[binx44]

I feel your sexuality doesn't determine if you meet the person you are meant to be with. I do believe that there is the perfect someone out there for everyone, only time will tell if you actually get to meet them or not. I hope you find someone who makes you happy, and whom you make happy
*hugs*

[Alty]

Gay, straight, black, white, dog, cat, doesn't matter. You will have relationships, some will be good, some will be bad, and hopefully, if you're lucky, one will be forever.

Relationships aren't easy. There's no such things as happily ever after. Every step in a relationship requires work, commitment, understanding, communication. If you have the ability to do that with the person you love, then you'll have success.

So date, have fun, meet people, and remember that any relationship you do have will require work from both of you if it's to last. :)

[talaniman]

Will I ever find my perfect soul mate if I am gay?

You sexuality will have nothing to do with it. You have to kiss a lot of frogs before you find one that turns into your life mate.

Make it so bad, you may like the ones that don't, but that's the risk we all take. It will hurt when they hop away, but the pain won't kill you, so you keep kissing.

[I wish]

Instead of worrying about whether you will find a soulmate. Why not go on dates and meet new people?

There's no guarantee that the next person you meet will be your soulmate, but keep your head up, otherwise, you'll miss the next great person who might wakling into your life. Don't walk around doubting everyone (i.e. second guessing whether they will be your soulmate before you even talk to them) that you meet. Keep an open mind when you meet new people. Enjoy their company and let things flow naturally.

[Jake2008]

How old are you?

[joseph466311]

Thank you for all of your jhelp and I feel a lot better now, and let's just say I'm still a teenager, I'm 15 and my family dosen't really know about my sexuality but I am going to tell them soon.

[Jake2008]

All the best to you Joseph.

[hheath541]

Honey, being gay doesn't mean you'll never be happy to find someone to love. Being gay just means you have to look a little harder.

Don't worry too much about dating right now. Dating in high school is hard. Being gay in high school is hard. Being gay AND dating in high school is even harder. Take some time to examine yourself and come to more fully know and accept who you are.

See about joining a gay/straight alliance, if there is one, at your school. If there isn't, then think about going to youth activities at a local lgbt center.

This is a good site for lgbt youth. They have a mailing list where you can talk to other teens. They won't judge you or reject you, and a lot of them will be going through the same things you'll be facing.

Youth Guardian Services

[joseph466311]

Thank you a lot for your help. I wouuld love to check out a sit about this group that could help me. This might even be able to help me figure out who I really am inside and learn to accept it. :)

[talaniman]

May I suggest the "personal growth forum"?

[hheath541]

Good luck, and we're always here if you need to talk.

[Nickol32]

Yes you will.. why not
There is nothing wrong with you
Love love love
This is why we are here

[gil89]

As a general rule, your soulmate will be what people around you will consider the ugliest guy you've ever met, and the one you're attracted to most will break your heart and dampen your spirit... so don't get too anxious to meet a soulmate or get overly hormonal over some stupid dude.

[markimark]

Yes you do have a soul mate. And it may be hard to recognize but you will find you soul mate. Or you may already have found him it just depends on your heart, how you feel about the person, and what your attraction is. And sometimes with soul mates One person may actually awaken to reality first and know who their soul mate is it may take a little time for the other person to finally awake from their own sleep.
For example I can actually relate to what I just said because I am actually in that situation. I Know who my soul mate is and I am only 18. But the thing is he hasn't awaken to his knowledge yet. But I KNOW he is the one. So just keep Believing that you have soul mate and you will find him soon just open up your heart and follow what it's trying to tell you and you will be amazed with what it tells you So I hope find your perfect soul mate soon :)(::)(: