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    cmichno Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jun 3, 2010, 08:26 PM
    How do I let my coworker know that I have a crush on him
    I have been working together with this guy for 6 months now, and I know he is interested in me too! But both of us are just coming out of bad relationships and aren't sure on how to move forward with out getting hurt. I am not sure if he knows that I have a crush on him or not. I really would like to get to know him outside of work but I am not sure on how to approach him. I have asked hime in passing if he would like to go out for a beer, but he responded that he had to go work out after work. Im not sure how to take that. He watches me at work all the time and is always flirting with me. What do I do?
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    Jun 3, 2010, 08:43 PM

    Attractions and liking co workers can be a cause of great concern. I am not saying it can not work. In what ways do you think he is flirting with you? Maybe the only reason why you think he is watching you is because your watching him.

    It sounds like he is not ready for anything if he keeps passing up invitations even by passing.

    I would say leave it be for the time being.
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    Jun 3, 2010, 08:49 PM

    Just be friends. Continue on your healing process. Once you've both healed, then you can pursue a romantic relationship. Otherwise, you're just each other's rebound.

    Until you recover, just keep getting to know each other and enjoy each other's company.
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    Jun 3, 2010, 08:50 PM
    Hi, cmichno!

    Taking a break and taking things slow by not being in a hurry to rush into a relationship would be how I would handle the situation, if I were you. Really nothing wrong with getting to know someone else as well as others. It's nice to have friends!

    What do most of you at work normally do at lunch time, please?

    Thanks!
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    Jun 3, 2010, 08:53 PM

    Remain friends... Both of you need
    Time to get over the past relationships. Blessings
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