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    vickieodongoz Posts: 25, Reputation: 1
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    May 27, 2010, 04:06 AM
    Do I stand a chance with this girl for the night?
    Well,I have been chayting with her for awhile and here is what she wrote to me about us meeting.. Sorry for not writing you yesturday, but I decided to travel to my hometown to stay at my parents place this week, because here I can learn good. (I haven't got lectures this week.)
    About the weekend 4th to 6th of June. It would be great if you could come to Heidelberg. We could go out on Friday and if you want you can stay in my place. I dnīt want you to sleep in a hotel when you are in my town. We can go out and have a nice evening. The only problem is that on Saturday I have to learn and I can't show you Heidelberg, which is a very nice city. What do you think?. It is a long way to Heidelberg just for one evening and maybe Saturday! :/
    I wish you a nice day!
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    Devorameira Posts: 2,461, Reputation: 981
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    May 27, 2010, 04:19 AM

    I'm not exactly sure what you're asking.

    Sounds to me like she's really interested in you. If you're interested in her too, you need to make the trip.

    She's told you that she wants you to stay at her place... of course that doesn't mean that she's inviting you for a wild night of sex. Just make the trip and see how things go with her.
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    May 27, 2010, 05:07 AM

    What happened to the pregnant girl friend you were living with, or the one you met at school? And how about the one that you were texting? Just curious since you seem to be free to pursue anything you want where ever it is.
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    May 27, 2010, 05:56 AM

    vickieodongoz disagrees : people come here to be help by others and its not OK if you turn them away when you remember there history of question.
    If you wanted help, then answer simple questions, and clarify things. You weren't being turned away, just asks for an update to your life my friend, since I do know about your past. Don't be so freakin' sensitive for gosh sakes, that's suspicious like your hiding something, or maybe not just giving all the facts.

    Be aware We ain't going to help you cheat if that's what you want. SHEEEEEEZ!!

    What about it?
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    May 27, 2010, 06:46 AM
    Please review these rules on using the agree/disagree feature:
    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/forum-...nes-24951.html

    vickie, I am always concerned when someone seems to be asking for advice about using someone for a one night stand. Especially someone who has previously posted about being in a relationship or wanting a relationship with a different person.

    I, myself, can not give you accurate information based on one message. She sounds like a nice person who is being friendly. I don't know if she thinks of you as a friend or a lover from that one piece of communication.

    What are you wanting out of this relationship: a conquest or a long distance girlfriend? Or have you thought that far ahead?

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