[barbie69]

What to do in a three sum

[barbie69]

What are some of things I should do in a three sum

[Sariss]

Are you serious?

[barbie69]

Are you serious?

Yes

[barbie69]

Yes

[hheath541]

How old are you?

What are the sexes of the individuals involved? (mmf, mff, fff, mmm)

[Synnen]

1. Have a very long conversation with all parties involved. This conversation should take place over WEEKS, not minutes. In it, you should cover:
1. Sexually transmitted diseases, and when each person was checked last.
2. What happens if a pregnancy occurs.
3. What each of you fantasizes about--and what is absolutely, positively "off-limits".
4. What happens when one of the people involved says that they cannot do this--and what the exact wording you need to use to stop the entire thing.
5. Have a clear, concise definition of the role of each of the participants, including that of the "additional party".
6. Plan the actual event so that any women involved are not ovulating or menstruating.


If you don't KNOW what to do physically--well, you're out of your league from the very beginning.

I do not recommend that most people have a threesome. Most people do not have enough trust and faith in their partner to handle the jealousy and hurt that inevitably occurs during a threesome, and it WILL destroy your relationship if you can't go into it completely without jealousy.

My question to you is why exactly you WANT to have a threesome?

[SkinyBisPreg]

Just don't do it if none of you have any romantic feelings towards each other at all... You also must accept the chance of catching an STD. I've done it with an ex and I regret it to this day. It made me very insecure about our relationship.

[Synnen]

/shrug

It's a valid question. Whether people find them morally acceptable, they DO happen. In some cases, they even enhance a couple's sex life rather than destroying the relationship.

Does that rule out "troll"? Nope. But since the only thing the OP has done that is even vaguely "trollish" is to ask a question that seems juvenile, I'm willing to give the benefit of the doubt.

And I'd really like the rest of you to do the same, and take the question seriously.

[CravenMorhead]

I think Synenn is on the war path. :-) (Just Kidding. Time is short and answers concise.)

I think the first question is age, and variety? Second question is who wants to add the third or are you the third?

I will assume that you're a woman, Barbie69.

Is your man into cuckolding? Ie, is he going to be involved, or watch his SO have sex. If this is the case. You do with the third, what you would do with your primary.

If all three of you are going to involved in the same puppy love pile, then... do what you want to do. Depending on the gender of the third, you might be able to indulge is some curiosities.

I suppose we need some more information. I would be curious to try this out myself, it is one of my fantasies, but I know that won't happen. It will stay that dirty little fantasy that I dream about every now and again.

[smoothy]

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And I'd really like the rest of you to do the same, and take the question seriously.

Well, since the obvious answer to the OP's question would be... " whatever the three of you agree upon together".....we just had to take the light hearted approach.

[JudyKayTee]

I thought that the screen name said it all - this is no babe in the woods.

But I agree - let's take it seriously and I'm sorry I went off track.

[hheath541]

The OP really needs to come back and clarify some things before we can even begin to really answer the question.

[Fr_Chuck]

I cleaned this thread up ( from the food jokes) and hope the OP will come back and follow up.