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    May 26, 2010, 03:14 PM
    There's this girl in one of my classes, and I really like her, but I need help.
    OK. I really need help. I'm in middle school, and there's this girl in my fourth period, man, if you when to my scool, you'd know, she's the girl. She's smart, funny, and reeeelly pretty. I like her, but that's where it ends. Were friends, we sit by each other in class, but I have no idea how to step it up. Please help me.
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    May 26, 2010, 03:49 PM

    Aww.
    I would ask for her number (if you don't have it already) feel free to be a little flirty ;) to let her know you might be interested. Then after talking for a while (I don't mean a few minutes, I'm talking about days maybe weeks because I don't know how close you two are already) bring up hanging out outside of school (or go straight to the point and ask her to be your girlfriend) See how you like hanging out with her and how she is around you on a date, then if all is going good, just ask her to be you girlfriend.
    But, make sure you aren't bugging her allllll the time and making awkward moments.
    That's just me though.
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    May 27, 2010, 05:08 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by kaylaluv View Post
    aww.
    I would ask for her number (if you don't have it already) feel free to be a little flirty ;) to let her know you might be interested. Then after talking for a while (i dont mean a few minutes, I'm talking about days maybe weeks because i dont know how close you two are already) bring up hanging out outside of school (or go straight to the point and ask her to be your girlfriend) See how you like hanging out with her and how she is around you on a date, then if all is going good, just ask her to be you girlfriend.
    But, make sure you arn't bugging her allllll the time and making awkward moments.
    Thats just me though.
    Only one problem. She s got a boyfriend already, so I'm just waiting right now:(
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    May 27, 2010, 06:55 AM

    Try reading this thread: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/dating...ip-463250.html

    Stay friends. Develop a friendship and see where that leads.
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    May 27, 2010, 11:51 AM

    Ohhhh. Ok so I would just stay friends and see where things go. But don't try anything while she has a boyfriend... That could be badddd
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    #6

    May 27, 2010, 11:56 AM

    She has a boyfriend, so she is off limits. For now that is.

    Just be a good friend, and make her laugh.
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    May 28, 2010, 04:09 AM
    Thanks guys ill see what happens.:)
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    May 28, 2010, 04:39 PM

    Werg
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    May 28, 2010, 04:42 PM
    :Dshe broke up with him! ::D:):D:):D
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    May 28, 2010, 04:42 PM
    Means nothing.
    Did she just break up with him?
    Are you ready to be a rebound?
    A kid your age, you probably don't care but be prepared to have her either go to someone else or talk to you until she finds someone else.
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    May 28, 2010, 04:52 PM

    Okay, do NOT rush into it. Stay friends for a while. Trust me, I know. I was friends with my boyfriend from 7th grade to 10th. Now I'm a junior and we are together. It's perfect to because we both know each other very well so there is no problem in that area. See, there is this other guy I've only been friends with for a while and he asked me out and it messed up our friendship a little. Things are now awkward and stuff. Lol, but you stay friends for a while, and good luck :) oh, and while you're friends, tell her she is pretty and tell her you think she smart and funny. That's the icing on the cake right there :) Girls love being complicated. They really do :)
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    May 28, 2010, 05:46 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by Homegirl 50 View Post
    Means nothing.
    Did she just break up with him?
    Are you ready to be a rebound?
    A kid your age, you probably don't care but be prepared to have her either go to someone else or talk to you until she finds someone else.
    I never said I wouldn't wait and see, an I do care.
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    May 28, 2010, 05:51 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by AndusIII View Post
    :Dash broke up with him!!::D:):D:):D
    I responded to this.
    Use words and maybe I would have understood what you meant.
    You were asking for help with a girl what had a boyfriend then you are gleeful and snarky because they broke up.
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    May 28, 2010, 05:51 PM

    Guys, please don't think I'm an immature little kid, because I'm not. Not completely, at least. I know what's going on, more than people think (even if I am a little arrogant).
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    #15

    May 28, 2010, 05:58 PM

    I guess I misunderstood your response.
    Give her sometime. Approaching a girl after a break up is not wise
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    May 28, 2010, 06:02 PM

    Thanks
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    May 28, 2010, 06:03 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by AndusIII View Post
    guys, please don't think I'm an immature little kid, because I'm not. not completely, at least. i know whats going on, more than people think (even if I am a little arrogant).
    Well you behaved like one by giving me a reddie
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    May 28, 2010, 06:20 PM

    A reddie?
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    #19

    May 28, 2010, 06:30 PM

    You gave my answer a negative rating.
    I did not give you bad advice
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    May 28, 2010, 06:37 PM

    Sorry, that was an accident, ireally did mean to rate 'agree'. Sorry.

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