[hstokes]

My "friend" dated a woman who fell in love with him 17 yrs ago, she had 4 children at the time and when her family was moving out of state told him she was pregnant. He also had children and wasn't interested in pursuing the relationship. She got money for an abortion, then said she met someone who would raise the child as his own, but stated not even her family was aware of the pregnancy. She then stated her job took her out of town for three months, where she stayed with a friend who was also pregnant, but when her friends child was stillborn she gave her baby to her friend. Three days later she says the child was adopted and the people disappeared after the adoption, with no word. After questioning, now she states the adoptive father gives her updates every 3-6 months, but is adament about my friend not to try to contact the child. I can find no birth record on this child. Anywhere. Is it me or does this sound suspicious, and where should I look besides regular birth records.

[Fr_Chuck]

Too many lies, pregnant, then abortion, then raising, then adoption, then still born. Now father gives her update but you can't contract.

I would not believe a word she says, and have to ask, why would you even be talking to this lady.

[hstokes]

Amen! Thank you for your response- I also feel she is a liar. I have lost my best friend of 8 yrs over this woman's lies. He does not see her for what she is. I believe it in my best interest to walk away and let their drama play itself out. Life is too short, and I tried. Thank you again.