[cocogir123]

Im a 14 year old girl and I have two huge problems: Im in love with my best friend and she's a girl too. Me and my friend Kelighy have known each other for about 3 years now and each day my feelings have grown for her rapidly. We always talk to each other and sometimes we hangout. She's so pretty and she's just amazing. Everything about her is incredible. Whenever I see her in the hallway at school my heart skips a beat and my stomach does flip flops. Seeing her brightens my day. Even after she has gym class and she feels sweaty and gross, she looks like a greek goddess to me. Anytime we hug my mind races and I always think "why can't she be mine? I would hold her like this forever":( Then when she breaks away my heart drops. Just the slightest touch by her sends goosebumps up my arm and I pray she either notices and a likes it, or doesn't notice it.
BUT instead of telling you all about how great she is and how lucky I am to even be in her presence I'll get on with it. What should I do? I can't keep my feelings for her bottle up because I'm afraid I might just explode thinking about her. Please can anyone help me

[gosaints12]

I think if you trust kelighy, u have to tell her. I mean, you don't want to randomly just grab her and kiss her. That can ruin your friendship. But if you don't want to tell her you like her, you should just play it cool. If you like the hugging and stuff then don't turn it down, just go with the flow but if u decide to do that then u got to make sure you don't get attatched because you will fall harder. Hope I helped

[Larken85]

Sounds like you are obsessed. (then again what is love if not obsession?) I would tell her. But also be careful, at this age your hormones are really in overdrive and your body may tell you it wants this now, but later on it may say something totally opposite. Before you tell her you got to know that you are going to lean towards women in relationships instead of men.
But if you are sure of that then she deserves to know how you feel. It may ruin the friendship anyway if she doesn't know that you like other women, but then again it may not at all.

[theresbeautyinu]

I'm 14 also and I'm a girl that has liked my best friend which is a girl. She always tells me it don't bother her, and she respects me when I tell her. She still hugs me and occasional kisses me. But she is strait, I've always found it best to tell her. So if your friend is a good friend, she should understand, I think you should tell her.

[lelly_tots]

I think you should wait and see because you are still only very young. It hard to understand these feelings sometimes. I'm in slightly the same as you but I'm 19 and never found the courage to tell my best friend(also a girl) how I feel. I know she would understand but I still wouldn't be ready to tell her.. I still like men and she is the first girl I've ever liked.. in some ways I think a lot of people go through this sort of thing with a close friend and its learning to control your feelings that will get you through it. If you tell her she might be OK with it but on the other hand you wouldn't know how someone might react to this sort of situation.