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    Mar 26, 2009, 11:04 PM
    I love a girl but she's taken by my friend
    Hi, I need some advice on this girl Ive known for 4 years, 3 years ago I asked her out, after 1 week I told her it was better for us to be bestfriends next thing... her heart was broken, she's gone out with some guy that I actually became friends with, and she says on her myspace that she in loves him and nobody would take his place, but she gives me clues that she still got feelings for me! Her mom loves me... seriously for her... IDK what to do Im not going to move on I really love her, but I don't want to do!?
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    Mar 26, 2009, 11:12 PM

    If you have any morals you will leave this alone until she does not have a boyfriend.


    And this dude's your 'friend'?. Well with friends like you who needs enemies?


    If you don't want to leave her alone, then when she cheats on you for someone else I'll meet you back here, how's that sound?


    ... not great, didn't think so.
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    Mar 26, 2009, 11:29 PM

    Well, if I'm not mistaken, I think she found a new guy and then abcd and the new guy became friends.

    Well, technically, you let her go, and you told her that you two would be good being good friends... and she found someone else.

    I suggest to leave her be. It's not nice to break up a couple.
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    Mar 27, 2009, 12:07 PM

    I hate to say it, but you had your chance and you kind of screwed up. She's also dating your friend. The obviously choice is to move on, but that's probably not what you want.

    So... if you like her that much, you're just going to have to wait for them to break up. You don't want to be a girlfriend stealer. If you really can't take it anymore, you can tell her how you feel and she's going to have to decide what she wants. Just don't give her any pressure.
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    Mar 29, 2009, 03:45 PM
    :mad:well I like this girl and ask her out but then she cheated on me with two guy and now a another guy I don't know what to do help
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    Mar 29, 2009, 04:00 PM

    I told her it was better for us to be bestfriends next thing... her heart was broken
    Geez, you screwed up, as you had what you wanted, but kicked it aside. Leave her alone now, and her friend.
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    Mar 29, 2009, 04:01 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by HRUSTIC View Post
    :mad:well i like this gurl and ask her out but then she cheated on me with two guy and now a another guy i dont know what to do help
    How about starting your own post. This one is someone else's.
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    Mar 29, 2009, 04:07 PM

    Yes, leave her alone. Sustain your feelings for now, maybe when she brakes up with her boyfriend something will happen. Maybe her and her boyfriend were meant to be. Other way, you need to hold your feelings back, and who knows, maybe they'll fade away and you'll fall for someone else?

    Patience. :D
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