[Becks123]

So me and my boyfriend ATTEMPTED unprotected sex.
He didn't ejaculate, nor did he put his penis in. I've been feeling sick lately but there's a bug going round and I'm not too sure whether I may be pregnant?
I may not of mentioned but I'm very young, and yes I'm ashamed so I don't need people yelling at me please.
I'm just very scared right now and regret everythin, please help me.
Pregnant or paranoid! x

[justcurious55]

well, since you say he didn't even put it in you, I'm leaning towards paranoid. The chances of you being pregnant if you didn't actually have sex are slim to none. Don't stress over it now. You've probably got whatever bug is going around. You start stressing when you've missed a period. Not when it's 1 or 2 days late. But when you've actually missed it. Then you take a home pregnancy test using first morning urine.

can I ask how old you are? I'll try to make this as non-lecture like as I can. But sex is a big thing with big consequences. You really should wait until you are ready to deal with all the possibilities that come with sex. But since like many others you probably won't, at least use protection when you do decide to have sex. And I strongly believe two forms are the best way to go. There are numerous forms of hormonal birth control out there for you. And your partner should ALWAYS wear a condom. No condom=no sex. No form of birth control is 100% effective, but no birth control at all is a pretty sure way to get pregnant and no condom greatly increases your chances of getting an std. always make sure you and your partner have a clean bill of health even when you are using condoms. That's really the thing I would be paranoid about right now if I were you. And also, don't ever let anyone pressure you into sex before you are ready. And ready includes being emotionally ready as well as ready with birth control.