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PeterGhimself · Mar 4, 2010, 04:41 PM

Ok well there's this girl that I like. I know her through swimming. I remember last summer I came early to skate(board) in front of the club and she came early too (with her friend). I started talking to her and it was cool. Then the swimming session ended (it was summer vacation) and I asked her out on msn and she said yes. But the next day she said no. Now this was a while ago and we still swim in the same club. I sometimes make the effort to say something to her like "hi" (which she answers with a smile) or "how many meters are we swimming?" and even once had a little chat with her over Facebook about our coach and it wasn't like "hey" "wts up" "nm u?". But when I see her in person, like when swimming ends and we're upstairs waiting to get picked up she ignores me. I thought I heard her talking to her friend about me and I think I caught her looking at me a couple of times, once staring and the other time she looked away.
But why is she ignoring me?

talaniman · Mar 4, 2010, 04:48 PM

She is supposed to ignore you!

A) Because she isn't interested.

B) She is interested but has to see if you are.

Just me I talk to her, all she can do is reject you again, and that's no big deal.

The point? What have you got to lose?

Devorameira · Mar 4, 2010, 05:08 PM

It's obvious that she isn't interested - otherwise she would have kept that date. Go about your own business and find a girl that is interested.

PeterGhimself · Mar 4, 2010, 05:29 PM

Oh and to add, I'm always thinking that she only said no the first time cause maybe she just didn't know me well enough or something?

I wish · Mar 4, 2010, 05:35 PM

Bottom line, if she was interested in getting to know you better, she wouldn't ignore you.

amicon · Mar 4, 2010, 08:39 PM

Chalk this one up to experience,she's not interested-find someone who is.

SWINGYOLEGS · Apr 22, 2010, 07:05 PM

PeterG, I think, with all of my little heart, that you should find your soulmate. Souls are bound together at birth, therefore this girl who is ignoring you is a CRACKAA. You should go for someone that resembles a greek woman, or maybe even a gypsy. But be careful PeterG... if she's a gypsy she may try to steal your tightywhities. But always remember to dance PeterG, dance like there's no tomorrow. Forget about this girl who is ignoring you and go for the gypsy.

Or I will find you...wherever you may roam.

Dan1122 · Nov 5, 2011, 07:41 AM

She maybe well in to you but decided to play hard to get. It sometimes works that by ignoring you it makes you work harder for her attention, after all why would she give her self to you so easily? You would have to prove yourself worthy of her love by not giving up so easily. She agreed to a date to start with so she is obviously in to you. If it was, me keep trying, but not to hard. Prove your are serious, she may end up running to you. Remember ignoring you makes you want her more.Its game.