[Anon1329]

IM 14 and I'm male. I sort of know I'm gay but I am an only child and my mum is always saying how she wants grandchildren. I don't know how to tell her. Also I fancy this boy in my year, I'm not really close friends with him but we get on well. I sit next to him in some of my lessons, he has a camp personality but he's really nice. He also always talks about his penis and having anal? But then he will talk about a girl who he likes, yet he has never been out with anyone at school in4 years.. And every now and then we will stare into each others eyes for a while then he'll smile and say "what?". He also always touches me ie: stroking, hugs, tickling, playfights. I REALLY really like him, some of my friends think he's gay too (They don't know that I'm gay though) Does he like me? What should I do...

[redhed35]

You are both underage for any sexual contact,I strongly suggest you don't even go there.

Could there be a situation where you could go bowling or the cinema and get to know him as a friend first,your also too young for dating.

Lots of teens go through a phase where they think they are gay or bi,its normal,I'm certainly not disregarding your thoughts or feelings,is there a way you could approach the subject with an adult you trust?

[neverme]

Try not to think about this guy too much as red said you really are too young to be engaging in anything sexual.

Moreover the ridicule that will more than likely come, although it is not right or just, is a lot to deal with no matter what age you are!

You need to be secure in yourself and your sexuality before you deal with external factors and people. This is your information you don't have to share it with anyone if and when you are ready to.

Is there an a guidance counselor at your school you could talk to maybe?