[MrNonChalant]

So Friday I chilled with a girl who I had met about a week before. We chilled at her house, watched TV and talked about a bunch of stuff. She told me before that the last guy that she let over was a creeper (found that funny lol) so I was on my best behavior the entire night. She has a son and I'm not to fimilair with kids but I made sure I played with him and actually enjoyed it. She went upstairs at one point and kept singing a song that went "I can tell this is going to be a good night"... blah blah. Night went well she was saying how she didn't mind that I was over so late blah blah. I hadn't really made any moves aside from random slick comments. At one point we were semi wrestling over a broom over a mess that I had made and tried to clean up but she wouldn't let me so that was fun. So about 30min before I was about to leave I was pretty comfortable with her so got a little more flirty. She was in some weird leg position so I pushed her of the floor playfully and she liked it. Then somehow we ended up in a weird sex position (lol) and I felt like she wanted me to kiss her... but I didn't. At some point during the week I had said when we chill I can give you a back massage which she seemed really receptive to... so I brought it up and she seemed cool with it but while I was doing it she seemed more interested in her son than what I was doing. So I toned it down and just rubbed her waist and arms. It was time for me to head home so I put my coat on and she said OK I'm going to walk you to the door and say good bye so I was like cool. So she picks up her son and walks me to the door... the light wasn't working so I couldn't really see what was going on but I really wanted to kiss her so we said our byes and I kissed her n the forehead... then I said " it" and kissed her a few times on the lips. She kissed me back which was cool... I thought we had a pretty good night but I texted her anyway about 30min later saying that I hoped that it wasn't to out of the blue and she said no everything was cool. I texted her the next day and got no response... so I texted her again saying playfully "your not going to pull a disappearing act n me are you". When I did get a text back towards the end of the day she said that she had forgotten her phone at home so I asked her how her day was... no response. Here I am 2 days later and I haven't gotten a response since then. I had told her that I usually text people 3 times then I let it go... but I actually like her which is odd... I haven't truly liked a girl in almost 3 years. Side note... I am currently in a relationship that I am trying to get out of and I made sure she knew this when we first started talking and she said it was cool especially since we weren't together or anything. And we actually talked about it the night that we chilled and she said that she completely understood where I was coming from. So should I not have kissed her... I normally NEVER make a first move unless I am 100% sure but like I said it was dark and I couldn't read her reaction to me kissing her. Like I said she kissed me back but that doesn't really mean anything does it?? So taday is Saturday and I refuse to text her back. On Monday I know I will see her at the bus stop on my way to my college class... should I ask her what I did wrong, should I apologize, or should I just leave it be and move on.

what's weird is I'm actually a tiny bit ed up over it. I'm not the type to sit and wait for a text for someone but I'm seriously like waiting for a text and I feel like an lol. So what is the best thing to do?

[Jake2008]

You are reading far too much into this.

You are already in a relationship. You have already told her this, and somehow you haven't managed to find your way out of it. She knows that whenever you are going to be with her, you will be cheating.

Just because you told her upfront, does not mean that you are being honest with either woman.

She has likely thought twice about taking a chance on somebody who is not available. If it didn't bother her, she would have made an effort to connect with you.

In the foodchain of love, her son has to come first, and a man second. A single man without an existing girlfriend.

[jaime90]

A few observations:
1.you are in a relationship that you're trying to get out of. Why is there "trying" involved? Why can't you just leave? What does your current girlfriend think? Unless you are on a break, you should not be seeing other women behind your girlfriend's back, even if you are in a fight. This is completely wrong. It makes you out to be untrustworthy, and you're flirting with the idea of cheating.

2. You are not familiar with kids, and she has a son- her son comes first, you come second.

3. You are rushing. There's a good chance you scared this woman off. Within a week of knowing her, not dating her, KNOWING her, you are kissing her, and ending up in sex positions with her. What is the rush?

4. Your question involved flirting and physical touching. Where was the genuine romance? Where was the seriousness, or sincere interest in this woman? Are you looking for a serious relationship, or are you dating her for sport?

I wouldn't push it with this girl. She has a son, and it's unlikely she is wanting to mess around with a guy she met a week ago. You've already rushed it, so why don't you let her get back to you on her own time?