[cuiriousneeds2know]

I recently met a man at a Christmas gathering. I was meeting some second and third
Cousins for the first time. When I arrived a man came up to me and hugged me. He let me know right away that we were not cousins, because his mother is he eldest child and
Has a different father than her siblings. From the moment we met there was a instant
Attraction and I could physically feel his presence. Every time he came close to me it was
As if his spirit was charging at mine. I felt a powerful energy coming from him, like I never felt before. He watched me and flirted with me the whole evening. I backed off,
Because his married. I'm very curious about the energy we felt. I talked to him once
Since we met and he felt the powerful energy too. We are not sure what it means, neither of us have experienced this with anyone else. What does it mean? Are we soul mates. Do we have a unusally strong chemistry? What this some kind of super
Sexual attraction? We are not sure. Since we met we can't stop thinking about each other or the wonderful feelings we felt.

[jaime90]

I wouldn't read too far into it. Many people have good chemistry, strong sexual attraction, and find their soul-mates without feeling "energy" from the other person. You were wise to back off from this guy since he is, and will be taken for the rest of his life. Don't flirt with the idea that you may be 'soul mates' this will lead you in the wrong direction, and will threaten his relationship with his wife.

[amicon]

Whatever the energy-and he sounds like a sexual predator to me-stay well away-he's married-and I'm betting,not adverse to cheating on his wife-forget the old energy/soulmate chatup line,its ancient.

[HistorianChick]

It doesn't matter what you "felt." He's married. He is not available. Stay away.