Does he still like me or not?

LouellaWalters26 · Nov 14, 2006, 12:48 AM

OK, I have been working at this one place as a cashier & the man upstairs always comes to visit & hang out with us after he gets off work. Well, we have been flirting & teasing for a while now. He is always staring at me while I am waiting on customers. He walks me to my car when I leave & we even stand out there & talk a little bit. Well, anyway, me & my friend decided to pay him a visit at his apt. one Saturday night. He seemed very happy we were there & we were drunk & I could tell he was a little drunk. Well, that night he was very openly flirting. He told me I was pretty & constantly kept touching me. Not in a groping way, just arm around me, hand on my back, you know, that sort of thing. Well, everything was fine & we finally left & went home. The next work day came & he come over as usual. But, this time he was a little standoffish. I mean he was staring at me some & smiled at me too, but he wasn't teasing or acting like he usually does. It was almost like he was a little shy. So, what exactly does this mean? Does he not like me anymore? Also, what can I do to rectify the situation? Thanks for any help.:confused:

Krs · Nov 14, 2006, 01:25 AM

I can see from your profile, that you are 30 yrs old, so I'm sure you are mature enough to maybe ask the guy directly in a subtle way whether he likes you? Why not!

Also back in June you posted.
Are you still married?

ballybee · Nov 14, 2006, 01:26 AM

I think this guy is very shy and wants to have a try at seducing a women but doesn't know how to go about it.. how old is he? He sounds to be very young. I think you should take a drink with him and ask him directly questions in any case.. at 26 you are mature enough and should go with someone with more confidence and experience

Krs · Nov 14, 2006, 01:27 AM

Originally Posted by ballybee

I think this guy is very shy and wants to have a try at seducing a women but doesn't know how to go about it.. how old is he? He sounds to be very young. I think you should take a drink with him and ask him directly questions in any case.. at 26 you are mature enough and should go with someone with more confidence and experience

Where does it say that she is 26?

relroy · Nov 14, 2006, 04:35 AM

Yes,he has a crush on u.I think he stopped touching because he was a bit embarrassed about the night in the apt.maybe he wants to impress upon you that he is a gentleman.take him out on a date and see how things go.