OK, I have been working at this one place as a cashier & the man upstairs always comes to visit & hang out with us after he gets off work. Well, we have been flirting & teasing for a while now. He is always staring at me while I am waiting on customers. He walks me to my car when I leave & we even stand out there & talk a little bit. Well, anyway, me & my friend decided to pay him a visit at his apt. one Saturday night. He seemed very happy we were there & we were drunk & I could tell he was a little drunk. Well, that night he was very openly flirting. He told me I was pretty & constantly kept touching me. Not in a groping way, just arm around me, hand on my back, you know, that sort of thing. Well, everything was fine & we finally left & went home. The next work day came & he come over as usual. But, this time he was a little standoffish. I mean he was staring at me some & smiled at me too, but he wasn't teasing or acting like he usually does. It was almost like he was a little shy. So, what exactly does this mean? Does he not like me anymore? Also, what can I do to rectify the situation? Thanks for any help.:confused:

I can see from your profile, that you are 30 yrs old, so I'm sure you are mature enough to maybe ask the guy directly in a subtle way whether he likes you? Why not!

Also back in June you posted.
Are you still married?

I think this guy is very shy and wants to have a try at seducing a women but doesn't know how to go about it.. how old is he? He sounds to be very young. I think you should take a drink with him and ask him directly questions in any case.. at 26 you are mature enough and should go with someone with more confidence and experience

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Originally Posted by ballybee

I think this guy is very shy and wants to have a try at seducing a women but doesn't know how to go about it.. how old is he? He sounds to be very young. I think you should take a drink with him and ask him directly questions in any case.. at 26 you are mature enough and should go with someone with more confidence and experience

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Where does it say that she is 26?

Yes,he has a crush on u.I think he stopped touching because he was a bit embarrassed about the night in the apt.maybe he wants to impress upon you that he is a gentleman.take him out on a date and see how things go.