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    Dec 2, 2009, 08:09 PM
    I love my boyfriend but I don't trust him around his babymama
    Am with my boyfriend for 9 months and he has a babymama of a little girl that is one years old he tells me he don't love her that he loves me but how can I trust him when he goes see his baby girl
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    Dec 2, 2009, 11:02 PM

    Why don't you trust him?
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    Dec 2, 2009, 11:29 PM

    Trust is the base of any relation... u got to stop doubting him...
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    Dec 2, 2009, 11:34 PM

    He has a child. That child comes first. You are second best and always will be.

    There's not issue of trust here, it's an issue of jealousy on your part.

    He is being a responsible father. He wants to be a part of his child's life. You either accept that or find someone else.
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    Dec 3, 2009, 07:25 AM

    That's the situation that he's in. He comes with some baggage.

    The question is, can you live with it? No one is forcing you to be with him.
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    Dec 3, 2009, 01:20 PM

    What has he done to make you feel this way?
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    Dec 3, 2009, 01:42 PM

    Has he done anything with the baby's mother to make you distrust him? Dating a guy with a child is a very delicate situation, and it is a big commitment on your part. You should've realized at the beginning that the child comes first in his life, he is being a respectable and loving father, and that is something to be admired. A relationship requires trust and this poor guy is just trying to see his kid, if you can't hack it, you should've thought that through ealrlier... it's been 9 months for gosh sake. Sorry to be so harsh, but seriously..
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