Am with my boyfriend for 9 months and he has a babymama of a little girl that is one years old he tells me he don't love her that he loves me but how can I trust him when he goes see his baby girl

Why don't you trust him?

Trust is the base of any relation... u got to stop doubting him...

He has a child. That child comes first. You are second best and always will be.

There's not issue of trust here, it's an issue of jealousy on your part.

He is being a responsible father. He wants to be a part of his child's life. You either accept that or find someone else.

That's the situation that he's in. He comes with some baggage.

The question is, can you live with it? No one is forcing you to be with him.

What has he done to make you feel this way?

Has he done anything with the baby's mother to make you distrust him? Dating a guy with a child is a very delicate situation, and it is a big commitment on your part. You should've realized at the beginning that the child comes first in his life, he is being a respectable and loving father, and that is something to be admired. A relationship requires trust and this poor guy is just trying to see his kid, if you can't hack it, you should've thought that through ealrlier... it's been 9 months for gosh sake. Sorry to be so harsh, but seriously..