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    vgsvishal Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Nov 30, 2009, 12:54 AM
    my girlfriend told me she is not worth to me
    I'm 24 n she is 21, she had a past boy friend to whom she loved a lot . Bt the guy told her that he doesn't love her. Meanwhile I came in pictue , we set together n talk a lot n I fall in lv with her. I expressed my feelings to her after about 1 yr when c was studying. C told me that c don't lv me bt just has feeling like a friend. After that c told me that her x is getting marry with other girl. After that c started talking with me too much. C made me realise that she lo0ves me a lot . Bt I haven't got any sign that c loves me . I just replied "ok". After some day when her x's marrige is near , she offer me to marry me. I don't know why so early? Actually c was already got anggaged with other boy bt c didn't want to marry that guy too. C told me I want mary you only n no other. When I ask her reason for so eagerness , c rplied that she want to marry me bkz I lv her so much n will keep her happy for whole life. Nw it sounds like selfish ness. I still love her bt c still talks to her x n that I don't like. C says its my habit to talk with other guys. Now tell me what should I do. Few days ago on her b'day I went to her to wish her b;day. I aske her to go out with me bt she denied saying that cher mind stops her from doing that . Bt the same thing c had done with her x. after 1 day c text me saying that " i m sory , ishould not do dat with u i would have gone with u out side bt my soul stoping me from doing dat. i think im not worth to u n i can nevr b like u. u should not mary me"
    help me what should I do
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    Nov 30, 2009, 02:10 AM

    OP- you need to rewrite this not using textspeak as that's not allowed on this site.
    Thanks.
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    Nov 30, 2009, 04:03 AM

    You're a rebound buddy, her ex got married so she felt she had to. So she went to you and asked you. She's obviously not over this guy. And what ever he does she feels she has to match it. You got yourself into a mess, now you got to get yourself out. Why care for someone who cares for someone else?
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    Nov 30, 2009, 04:45 AM
    I agree with E12191G, she is still in love with her ex, and she wants to marry you out of spite, before her ex marries.

    Don't fall for it, you will be very disappointed. She doesn't love you, she's not good marriage material.
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    Nov 30, 2009, 07:21 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by E12191G View Post
    your a rebound buddy, her ex got married so she felt she had to. so she went to you and asked you. shes obviously not over this guy. and what ever he does she feels she has to match it. you got yourself into a mess, now you gotta get yourself out. why care for someone who cares for someone else?
    She using to leverage you against the other guy don't fall for it!
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    Nov 30, 2009, 09:06 AM

    https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relatio...lk-303157.html,

    Kindly rewrite your post so it can be understood as I would hate to delete it.

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