[Magdalen]

I am divorced 3 yrs ago, I leave with my son 10 yrs old, 4months ago I started relationship with a man who 2 yrs ago died wife and he has a daughter 8 yrs. Up to 10 days ago everything was fine, even he never spooked about future we were all involved in this relationship so our kids as well this gave more confidence that we have future. But now he is saying that he does not love me anymore and his family will not except me since I have soon and he ended this relations.
I love him so much,.
What to do?

[Young_Cardinal]

Hey there, welcome to the site
I'm new on here too and just got out of a painful relationship
Well I can't even compare to this situation even though my previous relationship was a mess
But my only advice would be to try and let it be, and take care of your son, that is the main priority
I know this girl who has 2 kids (shes like 22), and I think she's had like 20 boyfriends
I feel bad for the girl, but at the same time, how sad is this for her cute children :(

[redhed35]

You have invested in a future with this man,but there is really nothing you can do if he does not want a relationship anymore...

If he does not love you,and does not want you,the only solution is to walk away..

That I know sounds impossible right now.

Your hurt and heartbroken and your son will be too.

I suggest no contact,and try and move on from this...

There could be other underlining issues that you don't know about,but for now all you can do is give him what he wants.

Relationships break up all the time,its no comfort to you now,but people do survive,and go on to other relationships... I can say that from my own experience.

There are stickies in the relationship thread,if you have a look,you may be able to get some comfort from other peoples stories,and how they coped.

[I wish]

His feelings have changed. You can't force him to come back to you. He has to come back to you naturally.

You can't put your life on hold and wait for him forever. Focus on doing things for yourself and moving on with your life.