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    Oct 17, 2009, 02:56 PM
    When a girl says maybe
    If you ask a girl something like,have coffe or something if she says maybe ,that means no in a nice way or means maybe for real?
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    Oct 17, 2009, 03:46 PM

    Did you simply ask her to go to coffee sometime or did you ask her to go to coffee on Saturday at 8am? Perhaps she has to check her schedule.

    Or maybe she is turning you down nicely.

    When did you ask? Has she talked to you since she said maybe?
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    Oct 17, 2009, 05:19 PM

    When I asked her I did it this way,maybe we could get coffe sometime and she was like,maybe and no I haven't talk to her
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    Oct 17, 2009, 05:20 PM

    Sounds like she was just letting you down easy,
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    Oct 17, 2009, 05:21 PM

    Well maybe it was no.

    Most likely if she was going to have said yes she would have said yes
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    Oct 17, 2009, 05:26 PM

    I think you should text her to follow up. Girls don't always say what they mean. She could have been trying to play it cool or was thinking in the back of her mind about how busy she is over the next couple weeks or whatever. Make a plan and ask her out. If she rejects, then she's not interested and you'll know your answer.
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    Oct 17, 2009, 06:03 PM

    It doesn't hurt to get a confirmation from her, but "maybe" is usually a lighter way of saying "no".
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    Oct 17, 2009, 06:22 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by plzhelp008 View Post
    If you ask a girl something like,have coffe or something if she says maybe ,that means no in a nice way or means maybe for real?


    Maybe!
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    Oct 18, 2009, 01:58 PM
    If you aren't specific, why should she be?
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    Oct 19, 2009, 12:43 PM

    There wouldn't be any harm in asking again with more details this time. If she says maybe again- your answer is more than likely a no.

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