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usagistars · Sep 28, 2009, 06:55 AM

"...she told me to forget my feelings for her over the summer. I did. But they came back and I couldn't help it. She said she wasn't afraid to love me anymore...I can't even describe how happy that made me. I told you i wanted to kiss you again. Not because i felt something. Because i wanted to feel something the second time. But i realized it doesn't work that way. Traci feels right to me. It makes me happy to be near her. "

And that's what he told me when he broke my heart
The story behind it is
I've like this guy since my senior of high school
At first I didn't like him but my friend Traci liked him but at the time he really thought she was too wild... at this time he liked me but I didn't know it
So I graduated

While I was a freshman he and Traci began to date but it didn't last long that year
But he still had feelings for her I came back summer to confess to him

He said he still had feelings for me so we began and little summer love(no sex)

However I had to go back to school and now that I'm back he is now going back with traci
He is now 18 and I'm about to be 20
Traci is 17

I'm so confused...
It seems to me like he doesn't know what he wants but
He chose her again instead of waiting for me... like I was for him
I was working so hard to get a car so I could see him...

Traci by the way is one of my closest friends and she is a lot like me accept for wild and confident... she says she isn't afraid to love him... this saying after having just broke up with her last boyfriend a week before... argh she has everything!

Is he truly in love with her?:confused:
I have my doubts... but I don't want to hold onto those I just want hi to be happy.. but with me dammit! I know I can appreciate him more and respect him and give it my all
But is that too much?
Or since I'm about a three hour drive away is it just hopeless
Should I move on?
And why can't I have something ever? I've always crashed and burned when ever it came to a relationship! I don't think I love him but why does my heart hurt so bad!

Thanks... :o

redhed35 · Sep 28, 2009, 07:16 AM

Traci has a guy who can't commit to a chicken sandwich by the sound of it... go traci,she's got a winner there..

He's 18,he's not interested in settling down and traci will use and abuse and so will he,until they both grow up..

Use your head here,let them off,you have not lost anything,if you need sweet nothings sure I could say sweet nothing s to you,would they mean anything,nope!

Move on with your life,you got a little burned,take some time out for you... you'll be all the more wiser next time.

usagistars · Sep 28, 2009, 07:55 AM

Originally Posted by redhed35

traci has a guy who can't commit to a chicken sandwich by the sound of it...go traci,shes got a winner there..

hes 18,hes not interested in settling down and traci will use and abuse and so will he,untill they both grow up..

use your head here,let them off,you have not lost anything,if you need sweet nothings sure i could say sweet nothing s to you,would they mean anything,nope!

move on with your life,you got a little burned,take some time out for you...you'll be all the more wiser next time.

Lol >.>
Sp your saying that he's not "in love" persay? I haven't talked to either of them since I got that text message... the night I confronted him about it

I had to hear it from traci first which hurt really bad
I just wanted to know why he didn't just tell me I would have understood even if it did hurt still...

redhed35 · Sep 28, 2009, 08:01 AM

What's he going to say... it was fun but I need a burger!

I know it hurts,your friend betrayed you,he wooed you and then kicked you to the curb,he's a boy,boys don't know what to do...

A man on the other hand,is a different story... dont contact them,get busy enjoying your life,and moving out of the teenage world of high drama into the adult world,where hopefully the drama's are just on t.v..

Its up to you how you love your life,you can let this bug you for months,or let it go,learn from it,and don't fall for guiter playing romeos again.

usagistars · Sep 28, 2009, 08:32 AM

Originally Posted by redhed35

whats he going to say...it was fun but i need a burger!

i know it hurts,your friend betrayed you,he wooed you and then kicked you to the curb,hes a boy,boys dont know what to do...

a man on the other hand,is a differant story...dont contact them,get busy enjoying your life,and moving out of the teenage world of high drama into the adult world,where hopefully the drama's are just on t.v..

its up to you how you love your life,you can let this bug you for months,or let it go,learn from it,and dont fall for guiter playing romeos again.

loves your wit!
made me feel a whole lot better xD
I guess...
personally I really just needed some closure
he is much more mature for his age... but when it all comes down to it he is still just a kid
I'm going to have to face them eventually when I get home for christmas
or maybe not depends on them

thanks for the advice
ps he is more of a l"azy nerd with horrible work ethic but will do what he's gatta do" than "guitar playin romeo"
either way its not my jurisdiction anymore
thanks again imma print this out to put this on my wall so I can giggle =3

redhed35 · Sep 28, 2009, 08:34 AM

Originally Posted by usagistars

loves ur wit!!
made me feel a whole lot better xD
i guess....
personally i really just needed some closure
he is much more mature for his age......but when it all comes down to it he is still just a kid
i'm going to have to face them eventually when i get home for christmas
or maybe not depends on them

thx for the advice
ps he is more of a l"azy nerd with horrible work ethic but will do what he's gatta do" than "guitar playin romeo"
either way its not my juristiction anymore
thx again imma print this out to put this on my wall so i can giggle =3

Good for you! Onwards and upwards.

usagistars · Sep 28, 2009, 09:10 AM

Originally Posted by redhed35

good for you! onwards and upwards.

One last tincy question

There isn't any deeper meaning to this is there?
And if ti is what is it?

"...she told me to forget my feelings for her over the summer. I did. But they came back and I couldn't help it. She said she wasn't afraid to love me anymore...I can't even describe how happy that made me. I told you i wanted to kiss you again. Not because i felt something. Because i wanted to feel something the second time. But i realized it doesn't work that way. Traci feels right to me. It makes me happy to be near her. "

And that's all I promise

redhed35 · Sep 28, 2009, 09:15 AM

You can post as often as you like,other posters will come and give their input too...

Post and they will come.. so to speak.

The thing is,if he wanted you,he would be with you.. hes not.

All the mush in the world is not going to change the fact he choose to be with her,not you...

That's harsh I know.. but its true,and its what you need to hear to help you realise this guy was selling a line.

Traci bought the line,you didn't,lets hope she does not have buyers remorse!

usagistars · Oct 3, 2009, 05:46 PM

I've just had my heart broken by this guy
Who I liked me and led me on but couldn't handle a long distance relationship

I've read the rules of contact and I haven't contacted him...
But he's contacted me!
I've been told to act friendly...

usagistars · Oct 3, 2009, 06:08 PM

It was an accident! I was so used to it!. just an automatic response...

DerelictHerds · Oct 3, 2009, 07:16 PM

How old are both of you?

I wish · Oct 3, 2009, 07:28 PM

Threads merged

Review the rules: https://www.askmehelpdesk.com/relati...qs-332732.html

Rule #3 - Do not pick up. Do not respond.

usagistars · Oct 3, 2009, 07:37 PM

Originally Posted by DerelictHerds

How old are both of you?

Well I'm 19 and he is 18
I'll be 20 in Feb