Thanks excon.. I did try to rent an apt in my name but.. they said I would have to add my fiancé to the lease to move anyone in, and I'm assuming I cannot move him into a place without the landlord being notified in some way with how probation works?
I know I am going to be hard pressed to find a place that I can afford on my own on my current salary and hours... most apts here that I've looked into require a background check or strict deposit and rental policies so most of the options that meet my needs are room shares... and unfortunately... I've lived here 5 months and EVERYONE I have met in this town.. including the people I work with... have done some time in the local jail at one time or another... kind of scary but.. unfortunately I moved to death valley in my opinion... this place is a hellhole I came here to get my guy OUT of... but now I have work here and it's preferable to MN... I know his ex landlord will say he has work, but I still don't know about the living situation because although there are now TWO places here that I would be able to move him into, being his old place and my current place... both places have a person on probation or parole residing in them...
It really makes no sense to me that they would be so strict about people on probation living with someone else on probation considering half the time they end up in halfway houses with nothing BUT offenders... so the whole policy really makes no sense to me... the other thing I find interesting is that... in the interstate compact rules it only states that an investigation must be made into where the person is going to be living if they are a SEX offender... but it really doesn't specify this for anyone else... so I'm not sure what the big hangup is... he doesn't need to show he has a job if he can live with me and I am willing to support him... what I really want.. and what he wants.. is for him to be able to go back to school full time...
Before all this happened we were working on coding a game demo to start an online gaming business...
Had plans to get menial work just long enough to get the money to leave this place and go back east, closer to where my children are living and get married...
That has all been uprooted by this entire process...
And now we're both going to be stuck living in a dead end town...
There's no place to go here but AWAY... eventually... when you're able to escape it...
He was here a YEAR looking for work before I came out here to try to help him get out...
They helped him get out without me and now he has no other options but to come back here... when they release him he will be homeless in MN until he can arrange transfer...
And then we'll probably have to live here for at least a year before he can transfer to someplace more amiable... but...
Getting a job without the benefit of a face to face interview, across state lines, is nearly impossible these days..
Esp with a record...
The job part is really the least of my worries, it's more getting a place that will allow him to move in... that doesn't have a criminal element already living there.. and that is much easier said than done in this place...
But yeah... sorry... I tend to babble when I haven't slept in two days ;)
I know you're an expert but.. not sure if you're familiar with the interstate compact...
These are the rules I am dealing with... as THEY state them...
ICAOS: Directory: States: Washington