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    Aug 31, 2009, 07:12 PM
    My boyfriend doesn't talk to me as much as he used to what shohuld I do?
    My boyfriend and I have been dating for 14 months. And all of a sudden he doesn't talk to me anymore. Maybe like 3 sentences a day and we used to talk all day everyday. I know he is busy with football and school but so am I and I have a job and I still talk to him. We live a long way away so I can't really go talk to him in person anytime either. And I love him but I can't not talk to him. And he doesn't change I have talked to him about it and he doesn't care. Help me!
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    Aug 31, 2009, 07:58 PM

    You're just going to have to confront him about this issue. Trying sending an email.
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    Sep 1, 2009, 11:32 AM
    Just try to do things he like
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    Sep 1, 2009, 07:14 PM

    Start being short with him, act like you are too busy for him, maybe even ignore him for a couple days give him space. He will see that he is losing you by not being a good boyfriend and will hopefully realize what he's losing.. make him miss you!!
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    Sep 1, 2009, 07:15 PM
    But that is playing games which is probably immature so I don't know lol I just know it always works with me
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    Sep 4, 2009, 11:28 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by krista1021 View Post
    My boyfriend and I have been dating for 14 months. And all of a sudden he doesn't talk to me anymore. Maybe like 3 sentences a day and we used to talk all day everyday. I know he is busy with football and school but so am I and I have a job and I still talk to him. We live a long way away so I can't really go talk to him in person anytime either. And I love him but I can't not talk to him. And he doesn't change I have talked to him about it and he doesn't care. Help me!
    First:

    There is no such thing as "All of a sudden." There was signs before you was too far in cloud 9 to see.

    Second:

    You talked all day everyday huh? Self-Control, mystery, challenge thrown out the window huh? You got too familiar with this guy. He lost interest.

    Lastly:

    Quit calling him, quit texting, go missing... completely NO CONTACT!! Let him contacted you... let him iniate everything.

    But more than likely he already loss interest. NO CONTACT is the answer!!
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    Sep 5, 2009, 04:46 PM

    Maybe its time for a new guy. One that cares.
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    Sep 8, 2009, 10:46 PM

    Hi Krista... Nothing is clear in your post. As the Sweet guy said, there is nothing called "All of a Sudden" in a healthy relationship. May be it is time for you to try a new boy friend or him to try a new GF
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    Sep 8, 2009, 11:40 PM

    How old are the two of you? And why does he live far away?
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    Jul 16, 2011, 04:19 AM
    My boyfriend is like that too:( we used to talk always bt now he doesn't talk to me like he used to he used to say I well go sleep when ever you you go or fall sleep bt now he like can I go sleep.. en that breaks mi heart:( I love him a lot it hurts..
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