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    Aug 27, 2009, 07:06 PM
    A girl
    Alrite well I'm a freshy at my new high school, I meet this girl named Haley (from my good friend that's girl who interduced me to her) during summer and she really cool and beautiful and a really fun person, wev hanged out a few times and I had fun, I was guna ask her out but she has a boyfriend already bummer, but about a month after I met her her boyfriend dumped her, she was sad but I wuld try to cheer her up anytime I culd and shed smile, anyway I knew she likes me because when we would text each other we wuld always make each other laugh and we wuld talk to each other more then just lik an hr or 2, so eventully a few days later she looked fine so I was guna ask her out so I asked my friend who interduced me to her if it was cool because they were good friends, but she said Haley wasn't ready to date yet, I figured it alrite I can wait, so one day we were hanging out at oreintation and I find out that she's dating a senior now at our school, double bummer and I also find out that my friend who interduced me to her is dating a senior too, both of the seniors are lik best friends and so are Haley and my other friend, so they all hangout together and when they talk about it in front of me they try to say it without me knowing which is weird because I kind of know half the stuff Haley and her are saying, but I don't ask or anything about them so yea. I don't know what to do, shuld I just move on? Or do something?

    p.s. every time I wake up I think about her for sum reason

    -Fluffy
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    Aug 28, 2009, 05:14 AM

    I guess you waited too long to make a move, probably not knowing how just to do that easily. You should have asked her out on a date as soon as you two got close enough to text each other. If she just started dating this senior guy then its not too late for you to make a move and ask her out. Try it.

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    Aug 28, 2009, 05:55 AM
    Don't misinterpret her kindness and text messages into thinking that she's interested in you. She already refused going on a date with you, so that's a clear sign that she's not interested. She just had the perfect excuse to reject you: the "not ready" excuse, but she's clearly ready since she's already with the senior. You were only her shoulder to cry on.
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    Aug 29, 2009, 10:47 AM

    It happens that way sometimes, but don't let it stop you from making other friends, and seeing other options, and opportunities though. You have a whole school of people to get to know and have fun with, not just her.

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