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    blkdymd Posts: 37, Reputation: 5
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    Aug 20, 2009, 07:21 PM
    Should I want him back
    My boyfriend and babies father of 6 years has just revealed to me he has cheated on me with a family friend. Now they are in love and has moved in together. I was shocked and hurt because I loved him, ironically I still do. While I was pregnant we were living long distance but kept our routine contact and he came to see me once a month. After the baby was born everything remained the same but I was going to move to his state after I cleared up business in my state. 6 months after my daughter was born he moved this woman into the apartment with her kids. Now, I've known this woman and her family as long as I've known him. I feel I'ved ruined my life because I didn't act quickly enough for him and now another has him. He was my family and all I ever wanted. My question is should I want to get back with I'm if he wants to or just cut my loss and don't look back ? He talks about now being trapped because the woman left her husband and kids for him, and wanting as he says" a simple life with me". She has tried to kill her self with pills so he is scared what will happen if he leaves her. I have so many doubts about my own sensse of reasoning and I know I need serious help.
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    Aug 20, 2009, 07:41 PM

    Cut your loss and don't look back

    Too much drama.

    He made his bed and even if he seriously wants back with you this woman sounds like Fatal Attraction with Glen Close or Obsessed with Beyonce
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    Aug 20, 2009, 08:18 PM

    This is a ridiculous situation. Don't give him a chance. He is selfish enough to do this to you and to enable another selfish person to ruin the lives of her family. He's trash... Trash him.
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    Aug 20, 2009, 08:35 PM
    Quote Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    cut your loss and don't look back

    Too much drama.

    He made his bed and even if he seriously wants back with you this woman sounds like Fatal Attraction with Glen Close or Obsessed with Beyonce

    A large part of me agrees with you. But there is another part that wants my old life back. So the question is what is wrong with me that I want to keep a toxic relationship? And how do I fix myself, at least for my daughters sake.
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    Aug 20, 2009, 08:40 PM

    Realize that IF he were the guy you thought he was he wouldn't have done this to you. That you must not know him as well as you thought you did and what happens if you take him back and he pulls the same stunt again?

    Work on a life for you that you can be happy with without him.

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