My boyfriend and babies father of 6 years has just revealed to me he has cheated on me with a family friend. Now they are in love and has moved in together. I was shocked and hurt because I loved him, ironically I still do. While I was pregnant we were living long distance but kept our routine contact and he came to see me once a month. After the baby was born everything remained the same but I was going to move to his state after I cleared up business in my state. 6 months after my daughter was born he moved this woman into the apartment with her kids. Now, I've known this woman and her family as long as I've known him. I feel I'ved ruined my life because I didn't act quickly enough for him and now another has him. He was my family and all I ever wanted. My question is should I want to get back with I'm if he wants to or just cut my loss and don't look back ? He talks about now being trapped because the woman left her husband and kids for him, and wanting as he says" a simple life with me". She has tried to kill her self with pills so he is scared what will happen if he leaves her. I have so many doubts about my own sensse of reasoning and I know I need serious help.
