[TwilightKraze11]

OK, I'm new to this, so hi everyone.
Anyway. Err I'm in a bit of a crazy situation.
I was talking to one of my friends. And he was so nice and sweet to me. I started realizing I was falling for him and he then said I really like you, and ever since he has been telling me he really likes me. But my ex-boyfriend has just told me today that he really likes me still and I still really really really really really like him back but I kind of sort of forgot about him because well he's an ex. So I have always and still liked my ex but then I told this other boy I liked him back a lot before I found out about my ex. So I really don't know what to do. Im so stupid for getting to this, but I just didn't expect it with my ex cause it sort of just came out of no where. I know it sounds a bad situation but its not that bad, I was just thinking what should I do? Thanks for the help.

[N0help4u]

How old are you?
What problems did you have with your x that you ended up breaking up?

If you are young you are probably better off just keeping them both as friends and not jumping into any bf/gf thing. That way you aren't burning your bridges before you are sure what is right for you.

[TwilightKraze11]

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Well I chose the one who told me first and turned down my ex. But now I have only been in a relationship with this guy for about 3days and I don't want to be in it. I have found out that I really badly want to be single. Its just so easier being single. Help, how can I get away from this relationship. Thanks.

[amicon]

By telling the truth.and then know that you mean what you say-i e you re not going to change your mind two days later!

[dreamingartist]

If telling the truth is too difficult, just tell him that you feel pressured and that you want to just be friends for now. Tell him that you feel like your moving so quickly and you are overwhelmed and you just want to be friends.

It sounds like you enjoy attention from guys, but you aren't ready to make a commitment to actually being faithful to one guy and not getting attention and flirting to others.

Your definetally not ready for a relationship with the guy you are in, so why string him along. Of course, if you tell him you are moving too fast you may feel differently later and you will still have the ability to see if he is interested.

Of course, if you don't tell him and have a blowout with him, you will burn this bridge. Better to tell him now than lose a friend, AND a boyfriend.

[talaniman]

Geez just be honest, and tell the guy you made a mistake, and apologize.