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    #1

    Jul 29, 2009, 11:26 AM
    I'm being blackmailed to do unnapropriate things.
    I did a very stupid thing a few months ago. I let an internet pervert get to me :/. He said he would block my account & hack into my computer if I didn't strip on webcam so being shocked & scared I did as he said. Then he wouldn't leave me alone after that :( he kept asking all the time threatening me so I blocked him. He messed up my comp so I reported him. I forgot about him until yesterday. Loads of accounts kept addind me & I kept denying them but I accepted one last night & it was him :(. He did the same thing again but this time he said if I blocked another of his accounts he would spread pictures & videos on Gaia, Myspace & Bebo. I've made another account though but I don't know what to do :( if I don't go online he'll spread them? But the thing is don't images & people who post stuff like that get banned anyway? They get deleted & reported fast don't they? I know I did something stupid but I am so scared right now :( what should I do? Just stay on this new account? There's loads of block checkers online so he'd know if I blocked him on msn so I just left it offline. I don't want to go the police or anything because I don't want to cause a fuss... I'm just so scared I don't know who to turn to or what to do :(.
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    Jul 29, 2009, 11:31 AM

    You need to go to a police detective and give them the information he uses.
    They can pose as kids and get him on all kind of charges.

    You need to go to the police think of what he may be pulling on other kids.
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    Jul 29, 2009, 11:54 AM

    If you can't do anything maybe you need to turn your computer off and unplug take the battery out and put it on the shelf for a while (years).

    Use other computers and don't go to the sites he is on and don't use any information that he can find you.
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    Jul 31, 2009, 09:20 AM

    Report it, that's screwed up.
    Please report it to the correct authorities. Its for your safety, imagine what could happen if he found out everything about you. And turned into a stalker. That could happen. But seriously report it even if u think its nothing
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    Jul 31, 2009, 11:34 AM
    Report it as soon as possible.
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    Jul 31, 2009, 11:44 AM

    He could even start telling others about you and then where would it end?
    What if its somebody that knows you and starts spreading it around to people you know?
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    Jul 31, 2009, 12:32 PM

    You need to report it not only for your sake but to protect others he may blackmailing.
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    Jul 31, 2009, 12:41 PM

    This needs to be reported. He's a pedophile, a stalker, a could be rapist, a child pornographer, a bad, bad, bad person.

    I know you're scared, you have every right to be, but you can't hide from this. You need help, he won't stop and it will just get worse and worse.

    Tell your parents, go to the police. What this man is doing is against the law and he will be punished.

    I'm sure you're not the only one he's doing this to.
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    Aug 1, 2009, 07:27 PM

    This person is a sicko , and unless you report it he will keep doing it not only to you but I'm sure he preys on other people as well.

    So not only for YOUR safety but you actually should do it as a duty to others.

    These perverts can be tracked down if you give the authorities all the info they need.
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    Aug 1, 2009, 07:32 PM

    It's a scary world. The internet is great for many things but it's also opened up a whole new feeding ground for perverts and pedophiles.

    You have the chance to stop this, not only from happening to you, but from happening to others.

    It is scary, I know, but you have a voice, and a choice, you have to use both and tell someone that can put a stop to this.

    Trust me, it won't stop. He's got leverage now, he has the tools to make you continue doing what he wants and soon he'll be asking for a lot more then he is now.

    You can either be a victim or you can push him down. Stand up for yourself and others.

    Tell you parents. Please.
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    Aug 2, 2009, 05:43 AM

    I hope OP comes back and lets us know if she is handling it. I think if nothing more she needs to turn the cam off and act like she is her mother and doesn't have a clue and says what are you typing stuff like this to my daughter for...
    But hopefully she reports it asap
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    Aug 2, 2009, 06:03 AM
    Quote Originally Posted by N0help4u View Post
    I hope OP comes back and lets us know if she is handling it. I think if nothing more she needs to turn the cam off and act like she is her mother and doesn't have a clue and says what are you typing stuff like this to my daughter for......
    But hopefully she reports it asap
    I like that idea,
    She could contact the police and organise for them to be waiting off camera when she talks to him.
    Then when she talks to him on the webcam and he says something innapropriate the police can see him and catch the crook.
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    #13

    Sep 6, 2009, 05:05 PM

    It's a shame the OP hasn't come back on this one , I'd really like to know what happened?

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