[pisceskerri]

Is there anyone who can give me a reading over this? Like maybe get feelings about what is meant for me because I want to know what to do with a situation I have thanks :)

[albear]

I get the feeling that you will doubt what I feel is meant for you.

[pisceskerri]

What do you think is meant for me ?

[albear]

I fell that what is meant for you would be to ask for the oppinions of people about your 'situation' so that they can try and help you, it is the help desk after all. If that is you are comfortable doing so.


Actually I was being an a$$ with my first statement, you called my bluff.

[pisceskerri]

Well maybe you can help me This might sound silly but I really don't know what to do, me and my boyfriend have been dating for over a year now. We get on great, everything is going good we have been through a lot together and he is always there for me and treats me like a princess. The only thing is he doesn't love me he has never told me he loves me. He shows me he loves me because he totally respects me and always puts me first. The other night I asked him if he loved me and he was trying to avoid the answer but eventually after a lot of persuding he told me he doesn't love me but why is this? He said he felt pressured but after all this time he should be able to tell me how he feels I love him and told him this but didn't seem to make a diffrence. He has spoke about the future with me and everyone tells me he loves me including his mum and friends an all my family think the same.He was in the army for a long time I think this may have a lot to do with why he can't show his emotions what you think? :)

[albear]

I think that you should repost this in the dating section of the site, or even better the relationships section, mainly because love and dating are not my forte' and also because more people will look at your post and will be able to give you much better advice than I could, sorry about that.

[pisceskerri]

No problem thanks anyway :) so what can you tell me ? Well what is your fortu?

[albear]

No problem thanks anyway :) so what can you tell me ? well what is your fortu?

Like I said before I was kind of messin around

[N0help4u]

Yeah psychic doesn't always mean mind reader.

[stonewilder]

I predict that if you don't stop pressuring him and stressing out over this that you are going to mess up what seems like a good thing.

[peggyhill]

Maybe he cares deeply for you, but is not ready to take the step that saying "I love you" implies. Give him time, and like stonewilder said, don't pressure him. That will make him run. Just keep going on like you have been for now. He sounds like a good guy. Maybe he wants to give it some more time, or maybe it is just really hard for him to express his emotions.