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    confused987 Posts: 1, Reputation: 1
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    Jul 16, 2009, 02:10 AM
    Not committed boyfriend.
    I ve just started going out with my boyfriend, his 23 I'm 18...
    He works pretty much all the time... sometimes early hours of the morning.
    He gets some days off a week, and he PLANS to see me on those days.

    So he makes a plan to see me on a certain day.. the next morning I get no contact from him until 2pm the next day, and then his like yeah its too late to do anything now or worse he doesn't contact me at all the next day.

    I'm just confused, like is he into me or not,, I just don't get this anymore..

    Should I end it now? Is it worth it...

    :confused:
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    Jul 16, 2009, 03:07 AM

    Sit and have a talk with him. If you feel that it is worth it, then go for it. If not, I don't see the point in continuing. Good luck.
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    Jul 16, 2009, 03:56 AM
    If I were you, I would behave maturedly about it and talk to him that is whenever I finally get to see him. I would ask him if there is a problem and that if there is we should solve it. I would also ask him if there is someone else. Its not a big deal after all you just started going out and if he wants to cut the relationship short, then the earlier the better for you because you have to move on with your life but don't jump to conclusions. You have to know the truth.
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    Jul 16, 2009, 04:00 AM

    I would just sit down and talk to him about this, see how he reacts. If he works that much I wouldn't think a whole lot of it early on in the relationship. It might not mean there's someone else. It might just mean he's tired. How long have you guys been together?
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    Jul 16, 2009, 04:03 AM

    Lay it on the line with him. Tell him that you kept your day open for him and he blew you off. Tell him you will plan your day in advance. If he cancels or decides too late in the day then don't see him.

    Make yourself busy. Don't let him think you are waiting around for him.
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    Jul 16, 2009, 04:34 AM

    Talk to him about it, if that doesn't work then you have to decide if the relationship is even worth it
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