[Questions2007]

So, here's the story! At the end of last year I met a lady, very nice, we got on very well, went out 4 or 5 times, in quite a short period. It all seemed to be going well, kissing etc, though we didn't sleep together.

Anyway, after a date, she said what a nice time she had, and that she was looking forward to seeing me again. Then when she got home, she texted and said it wouldn't work, and we couldn't go out again.

Bit odd, but up to her, it was early days, so either of us was entitled to do that. I asked her the reasons, she said she didn't see it working.

About a month ago/six weeks ago, I thought I'd see how she was, dropped her a text, we swapped a few texts, then I asked if she wanted to go out sometime, she said yes, we made arrangements, but then she cancelled a day before.

Out of the blue yesterday, I get an e-mail from her, which was very long, telling me what she has been up too (holidays etc), and asking me loads of questions, including holiday ones, how my family is, work etc, but also have I been out on many dates recently.

Weird eh? I think she is fishing, perhaps wants to meet again, but would be interested in what people think?

[redhed35]

Hmmm. Perhaps she had something going on in her life at that time..
Does sound like she is fishing.
Call her. But don't ask her out. Get to know her a bit better.
Suss it out if your interested.

[itried]

I think that she probably had some stuff going on in her life at the time and just wasn't interested in a relationship. Shouldn't be a big deal as far as you're concerned. She has probably sorted it all out and now feels that it can work. Take advantage of this and have some fun. Once again, I agree with redhead35!

[artlady]

I think she sounds interested again but she seems to be a little flighty.
The best indicator of future behavior is past behavior so I would expect more of the same wishy washy indecisiveness.
Ask yourself if it is really worth it before you become invested in the relationship.