Originally Posted by
2wicked
"im not goona say i love you cause you have so many people that tell you that everyday but i do care about you alot and i know the reason we broke up was because of my carelessness and if i would have treated you more like how you should of been treated and if i would of showed you i cared more i think we could still be together to this day everytime i see your face i can't stop thinking about how it used to be when i had you and it sucks when i realize that those days are over and even if you still dont feel the same way about me i still want want you to know that i want a second chance to be with you"
Way too long. Just say what you need to get the point across. "I've missed you so much. A lot has changed sicne we broke up and I realize that there are so many things I wish I had done differently. I'm hoping that you will give me a second chance. You don't have to answer me now, I want to give you some time to think about it."
These are your main points. However, if you love her as much as you say you do, then:
1) meet up with her
2) look her in the eyes
3) trust your feelings for her
4) say what your heart tells you at that moment
So that it does not look like you memorized lines.
Keep in mind:
1) Avoid mentioning about the past and what you did wrong, focus on a "better future"
2) Avoid talking about your competitors. Scratch out the part about "other people".
3) Avoid over-explaining your point, you will probably have her full attention for a very short period, because after you tell her this, she will start drifting off and thinking about a billion things at the same time. So make sure you get your point across in the shortest period possible.
4) You don't want to set yourself up to be thrown out of the game, so don't want to rush her or give her an ultimatum. You want her to make the next move. So after you tell her how you feel, you want to let her know that you will give her time and space to think about what you said.