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mission_01 · Mar 29, 2009, 08:49 PM

My girlfriend of 3 years (we have 1 child together) decided out of the blue that she would like to take a break in our relationship. We have had some bad arguments in the pass that she said she is still upset about. But most of the time when we are together we get along great. After two weeks on our break she is already seeing another guy. And told me that maybe I should date other girls. Which I'm not interested in dating other girls at this time. But she still calls me and tells me about this other guy. She said maybe someday we could get back together. But for now wants to date other guys. We are still friends but I want what we had before the break up or is it worth the wait? Is she even still interested in me?

itried · Mar 29, 2009, 10:13 PM

Yes, she is still very much interested in you.

As her Plan B.

artlady · Mar 29, 2009, 10:19 PM

She sounds like she is over you but still enjoys your attention and friendship.

You should tell her if she wants to chat about her dating life,that's what GF'S are for ,not ex boyfriends.

I would not hold out much hope for you getting back together.She is dating other people.If she wanted to be with you ,she would be with you!

liz28 · Mar 30, 2009, 05:33 AM

She is just keeping you around as her lifeboat. The main reason she broke up with you was to serve her wild oats and to date other guys not because of the arguments the two of you had from the past.

When you talk to her you don't have to hear about her dates and you should express that to her.

The most important thing for you at this time is your child not her. Also, you need to get out and have fun because the likelihood of the two of you getting back together is slim to none. Most breaks are permanent.

Sorry to say this but she doesn't want you and she must of thought about this a lot. So time to let go and accept it's over between you and her but not you and your child.

Sorry this happen but what don't kill you only makes you stronger.

talaniman · Mar 30, 2009, 07:13 AM

You have a child to raise together, do so, and be good parents. Don't let her make you a girlfriend though, so set the boundaries, and don't cross that line.

I think she does that to keep you at a distance, because she is going to do her thing, and wants you to do your.

In this case guy, take her suggestion and be a good parent, but enjoy your freedom, because it will never be the way it was before. Wanting that won't make it so.

mission_01 · Mar 30, 2009, 01:47 PM

Thanks to all for answering so very honestly. Some very good advice from all. I intended to take very good care of our child. As for her she is still calling me. I'm just starting to get over the break up and I'm ready to move on and enjoy my freedom as you have mentioned. I'm tired of playing games with her but I at the same time I will always remember the good times we had. I know in the long run I deserve someone better and will find the right girl in time. Thanks again