[mjs2430]

I know this is the typical "break" question. But I've read a ton of them on this site. We are both 19 years old, freshman in college. We started dating Senior year in high school, and have been dating for a little over a year. We are always perfect together. And honest with each other. We didn't have a falling out, or feel like we were fading apart. A week ago she said how much she missed me and can't wait to see me. She texts me all the time and calls and says I love you as much as possible, but after we hung out, had a great time, even had sex... she later says she wants a break. She claims it has nothing to do with me, and that she's not interested in other guys, and doesn't want a relationship. She said " i want to try again with you but right now ive just been so uncertain about myself the past few weeks, about everything. I dont know about school, about my life, about my major, about us even. so i need to figure myself out first then we can try again" Should I just give her space, or like keep a casual relationship just hanging out every once in a while, like once a week in the summer and until then not at all since we go to different colleges. Or should I just assume she's not going to want to get back together. Up until last week she wrote me cards and always said that we are going to be together forever. I'm very confused

[Wondergirl]

Next conversation make a deal with her -- absolutely no contact for two months. That will be the test for both of you.

[chuff]

You assume that it's over. If it wasn't she wouldn't want a break. Cut all contact.

[friend4u178]

She says she Loves you but her actions show that she doesn't anymore. You don't leave someone you Love.

Best bet is No Contact and start to heal.