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    Mar 3, 2009, 03:54 PM
    Separated and confused
    I have been separated from my husband for nearly two years we have three children together and he is with someone else, he is always confusing me taking interest in who I am seeing adding kisses to messages and getting into conversation with me, or trying to enter my house what is he trying to achieve ?
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    Mar 3, 2009, 06:11 PM

    Do you want him back?
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    Mar 3, 2009, 07:07 PM

    Ask him what this is all about or inform him that this is not behavior that you find acceptable.
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    Mar 3, 2009, 07:21 PM

    What are you trying to achieve?
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    Mar 4, 2009, 01:26 AM

    Yes
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    Mar 4, 2009, 10:13 AM

    Well then, you should ask him what he means by doing that because you are confused by his behaviour. If he really loves you and want things back as it was before, he should leave that other woman and move back in with you but for now I don't see his behaviour as anything more than a friend.
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    Mar 4, 2009, 10:18 AM

    Some people split up but still maintain a misguided sense of *ownership* about their ex.

    Or... he doesn't want you but he doesn't want anyone else to want you,so he is leading you on.

    He knows you still want to be with him and he is playing with you to stroke his ego.

    Bottom line,since this is all speculation,you need to ask and if he is playing games and sending you mixed signals tell him how it is making you feel.
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    Mar 8, 2009, 01:20 PM

    You need a divorce, get a lawyer, free consultation.
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