[Southface88]

Ok here's the deal. I have bin best friends with her for a pretty long time and I really likeher, love is more like it LOL, I just have no idea how to approch this at all, I have bin dropping hints everyso often, but I have no idea if she feels the same way. Resently was v-day and I got her a card a gift and some chocolate, but since then she's bin acting aliltle weird around me, and we haven't bin talking as much and hanging out as much, and now she's ignoring my texts and calls and I don't know what to do. I got some advice from a friend , he seid to not call her and wait for her to call me . Idk if I should take that advice or not. It feels like she is mad at me, but I don't know for sure.. I have no idea what to do cause I miss her now and I have no idea what to do, I think about her 24/7 and she's the only girl I want to be with, and I feel like ower friend ship is fading, and that's the last thing I want... Can someone help, it would be greatly appresheated.. I just want to know how to approch her to be more then friends, and also y she would be ignoring me

[Happygirl09]

I think that your friend is right. Don't make contact with her at all and don't talk to everyone about it, that could make it worse too. She may have gotten a little spooked by it all and not know how to handle it. Once she makes contact with you, let her know, calmly how you feel. She will either let you know that you are just a friend or she will let you know that she would like something more. If you love her you will respect her answer and her wishes for the future. Love is not forced and it is not always there for both people. Good luck.

[Southface88]

Thank you, I really appresheate your help. I don't talk to any one about her, it just happen to come up when I saw my friend a couple ofdays ago and he wouldn't say anything to her about it, but other then him I've never really told anyone. I do respect he, I just really hope she feels the same way, but if she doesn't I don't want that to rewin the frienpship. She hasn't really talked to me in a coulpe of days, like she texed me the other day to say hi but since then nothing, I no she's bissy with school right now and so am I but I'm starting to get a little worried.

[gobe]

Maybe I'm wrong but I think once you fell in love in your best friend friendship is over... you can became her lover or walk away. But being in love with someone and playing the best friend is not the best thing. I think happygirl is right Don't make contact with her at all time will resolve the rest.