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    Jan 30, 2006, 04:00 PM
    In love with a friend
    Dear readers,
    I have a problem I am in a relationship for 3 years, and am a good friend to this boy I know for 4 years. I love him a lot and it is destroying my relationship, meaning that I keep on thinking about him, for other reason we are friends and my boyfriend suspect something I don't know what to do. Please help me
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    Jan 30, 2006, 04:14 PM
    Im not sure I follow... this friend of yours, do you have stronger feelings for him? Or is he just a good friend? Why can't you stop thinking about him?
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    Jan 30, 2006, 04:32 PM
    We just had this question before.

    It means something wrong with your current relationship. End that first OR figure out what's missing.

    We do fall in love wit hfriends. We see them all the time and easy one day to fall in love with them. Happens in work places all the time.

    This doesn't mean you act on them and throw away your current relationship.

    How old are you?? Maybe you need other relationships??

    PLUs you need to be prepared to potentially lose a friend if they don't have those same feelings.
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    Jan 30, 2006, 06:06 PM
    Fancy, I'm going to make this short. If your in love with this other guy. Do what is true to your heart. But first you have to tell your boyfriend the truth, it's not good to keep him hanging on. Then let your friend know how you feel about him, there's a chance that he may feel the same way about you. But if he isn't into you, keep your head up, there's a lot of guys out there that will be glad to be with you.

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