[toshelt99]

Hi, I'm a boy, at age 18, and in October I meet a wonderfully girl on a nightclub. In the start she called me almost every day, and talked with me on msn every day, she could call me late on the night, or early , right before school. But then we argued. A guy I know said to her, that I had talked on about her behind her. She called me and yelled at me. Then we never spoke for 2 weeks, I blocked her on msn, Facebook and deleted her number. Suddenly one day she contacted me on msn, don't know how, I had deleted her address. We became friends again. But I think something is wrong. She never calls me anymore, and only sometimes contacts me on msn, before, she called me every Friday, to ask if I was going out on Saturday, she don't do this now, I'm so sad, I fell like I ruined our friendship completely. Kind of stupid, but I'm actually crying now, and I never cry. She said she was a little disappointed at me, right before we became friends again. I so badly want everything to be like it was before, she is a very popular girl, but I think, that before I was very special for her, but not anymore. How can I rebuild our friendship? I want so badly that it should be like it was before... do you have any tips? This is very important for me, I know this text is long but help me

[talaniman]

A few things come to mind here, have you considered its her, and not you, since she believed others over you, and reacted badly until she found out the truth. Maybe she has issues your overlooking, or maybe you were more emotionally invested than she was. Either way, she may be losing a better friend, than you are. Just the way I see it. Move forward without her. Don't trip over it.

[toshelt99]

I don't actually think so. We have not been friends so long, and the other guy who told the tings to here has been friend with her very loong. And I don't think she is a bad friend, she is the nicest girl / frined ever, she is actuallt more nice than my male friends. She is very nice to all, and I'm glad that she is my friend, that's why I posted this post, but our friendship is still not so good. I thought that I maybe should buy a valentines give to her, to show her how I feel and so on. Maybe or friendship will be better , and she can trust me again